Interracial Relationships, ignorant people these days... Options

[acidophilus]

Yeah, I'm currently in an interracial relationship, and I can barely get through a hallway without hearing some kind of remark. 90% of the time it's derogatory. Sometimes I feel like socking one of them. You'd think people wouldn't care so much these days what with nearly everyone trying for the "ghetto" persona. (Hence one of the reasons why I love her, she's one of the few that don't try to be "ghetto," and she acts nicely and everything) Have you ever been in this situation? (Note: I am NOT going to break up with her, so don't think that's what I'm asking)

[NobleSpirit11]

I'm a black male, and although my preference is to date black women, I would definitely date outside my race, and I don't care if anyone else does the same thing as long as they are happy.

Unfortunately, this situation exists everywhere. I went to NYU -- one of the most tolerant colleges when it comes to cultural differences -- and some people still talk and give weird looks if you date someone outside your race.

If you are happy in your relationship, don't let these people bother you. Chances are, you are going to hear people talking regardless.