Do your parents compare you to other people? |
 Jan 25 2005, 08:33 PM
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my parents always compare me to other people so they can imbue some good sense into me, yes it's for my own good, but it really gets annoy especially when i just had a busy day, also, it seems like they don't have confidence in you and i feel like i am always not good enough.
my dad for example, he is like an expert on it, he used the " 'bad kid' who got less than 1200 on his sats and now he is going to community college....." example ever since i came to US, and he compares me to all his friend's kids or just random high school salesclerk who works at wal-mart etc. and he would often point to those over achievers in the newspaper, like the girl who got perfect score on her ACTS and go "why can't you just be just like her?? She is only 16, and you only have a year to prepare for those standard tests......" At least my mom is not that bad... I hate it when they compare me to other people I am sure that most of your parents do the same thing too. |
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| *Azarel* |
Jan 25 2005, 08:34 PM
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... what kind of parents don't? ..
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Feb 5 2005, 11:28 AM
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Jan 25 2005, 7:34 PM) ... what kind of parents don't? ..  I dunno if it has something to do with being white, but mine didn't for the longest time. Then they started comparing to my best friend (Viet), who made straight As, had piano lessons every week, took all the advanced classes, was on a swim team, and had Viet classes AND was the sweetest girl you could ever introduce to your parents. Didn't effect the friendship, but it bothered me that my parents wanted so much outta me. Now I'm my best friend and I are in different high schools, which sucks a lot. Everyone at my school is really smart, so my parents don't compare me to anyone. Now they just send me out with my friends whenever they can so I can be "white-ifed" (aka cultured I guess) 
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xj_liana_tx Do your parents compare you to other people? Jan 25 2005, 08:33 PM
miss barnes QUOTE(Azarel @ Jan 25 2005, 7:34 PM)... what ... Jan 26 2005, 05:57 PM StanleyThePanda QUOTE(Azarel @ Jan 25 2005, 8:34 PM)... what ... Jan 29 2005, 08:54 PM stephinika ^^
yeah...but not too much. but every once in awh... Jan 25 2005, 08:56 PM
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y... Feb 5 2005, 05:58 AM sunissed14127 My parents always compare me to my cousins...i HAT... Jan 25 2005, 08:58 PM laur3nw Yeah, sometimes...it gets really annoying. Jan 25 2005, 09:25 PM EXPLO5ION Yes. they did that just about 3 minutes ago..
im ... Jan 25 2005, 10:53 PM Spiritual Winged Aura well its okay, all asian immgrant has a lack of ma... Jan 25 2005, 10:58 PM dani41790 yes all the time! omg its so flippin annoyin Jan 25 2005, 11:22 PM yukichan my parents compare me to other ppl and its so anno... Jan 25 2005, 11:27 PM SimplePlan_Luvr Omg, do they! Its so anoyying I sux lol compar... Jan 25 2005, 11:32 PM sweetdreamsx3 My mom always does that. How my friend is smarter ... Jan 25 2005, 11:33 PM 177emories they always compare! but i don't really mi... Jan 25 2005, 11:34 PM silver rain yeah, my parents do that a lot- it's really an... Jan 26 2005, 12:16 AM sweetxsimplicity My mom ALWAYS compares me to my cousin, its so fre... Jan 26 2005, 12:38 AM captured_serenity all the freakin' time...who do they think they... Jan 26 2005, 08:53 AM starlit3 yes my parents compare me with other ppl specially... Jan 26 2005, 02:40 PM Gypsy Eyes yes all the time. To all my cousins. I live with a... Jan 26 2005, 02:42 PM DeepBlueEyes531 ALL the time... to my sister. My sister is 3 years... Jan 26 2005, 02:53 PM KissMe2408 Sometimes. My mom usually compares me to my friend... Jan 26 2005, 03:31 PM Shortiiex they compare but when i do they say don't coma... Jan 26 2005, 03:33 PM xbr0kensmil3 i've told them a million times that everyone... Jan 26 2005, 03:52 PM x____duckii Well, yes, my mom does, and it pisses me off Jan 26 2005, 04:04 PM angel-roh Yes, my mom ---- all the time. But I don't thi... Jan 26 2005, 05:20 PM Shattered_Hope they always compare me to someone else... Jan 26 2005, 05:21 PM eli5e YESSSSSSSSSSS ..it makes me wana kill that person Jan 26 2005, 05:24 PM electric shock "Toby, why you can't be like her? She can... Jan 26 2005, 05:31 PM YoGrandpaIsFine QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Jan 26 2005, 5:31 PM)... Jan 26 2005, 05:37 PM xj_liana_tx QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Jan 26 2005, 5:37 PM)Wh... Jan 26 2005, 05:40 PM Frankie no. my parents don't do that because they are ... Jan 26 2005, 05:39 PM D4rkf4m3 yea its always " why cant u be like that girl... Jan 26 2005, 05:40 PM Xprezsion Yes, my dad in a good way says how much better I a... Jan 26 2005, 09:51 PM jnukes sometimes..
it's weird cause sometimes they ... Jan 26 2005, 11:14 PM llpurpleskyll how come you say annoy instead of annoying... Jan 26 2005, 11:15 PM Spiritual Winged Aura QUOTExj_liana_tx Posted Jan 26 2005, 5:40 PM
my m... Jan 26 2005, 11:35 PM xj_liana_tx ^ interesting, i never thought about it, i'll ... Jan 26 2005, 11:36 PM Spiritual Winged Aura ^ thanks Jan 26 2005, 11:41 PM oiograceoio dude... its a korean thang...
Korean parents love ... Jan 27 2005, 12:17 AM lidoaznboi89 asian kids always get compared to other asian kids... Jan 27 2005, 12:58 AM Funky Buddha Yup... really annoying... all the same shit too. ... Jan 27 2005, 01:03 AM M1SSxCHR1SSY yup. friends, family, strangers, you name it. they... Jan 27 2005, 01:44 AM azn hunni xox Yeah, mostly my two of my cousins. Ehh, ithe m... Jan 27 2005, 01:46 AM salcha yeah, and its hard cuz my frikken smart cousins bo... Jan 27 2005, 03:52 AM Weird addiction my mum compares me to my sister and its f**king an... Jan 27 2005, 11:13 AM flyonthewall4590 my mom always compares me to my best friend...it... Jan 27 2005, 11:41 AM summer_gal93 My parents compare me to my older siblings and exp... Jan 29 2005, 02:26 AM FLIPxADDICTION my mom compares to tons of people, either how pret... Jan 29 2005, 02:36 AM xxruinedsoulxx yes they compare me but not too much Jan 29 2005, 08:03 AM br0ken smile sometimes. I hate it Jan 29 2005, 09:34 AM weirdness sometimes they do. i hate it when they do that so ... Jan 29 2005, 09:43 AM sammehmyst yeah, it sucks so much.
not as much as my friend,... Jan 29 2005, 09:51 AM TheSpoon always!! i HATE that Jan 29 2005, 01:24 PM LeSLiE Agh, yesss, and it bothers me. And my mom is so no... Jan 29 2005, 03:39 PM s0pnayish Sometimes they do, especially when they compare me... Jan 29 2005, 08:26 PM xx silhouetted holy smacks. don't even get me STARTED about t... Jan 29 2005, 08:52 PM azn_r4pf4n QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Jan 26 2005, 2:40 PM)my m... Jan 29 2005, 09:10 PM toodlepops. yes, definitely. Jan 29 2005, 10:05 PM Wishful_Dream my parents compares me to everyone.. from my cousi... Jan 30 2005, 12:48 AM lolita kitty mom- yes x_x
dad- no Jan 30 2005, 01:19 AM sheepy the ALWAYS do. and when i compare myself to other ... Jan 30 2005, 11:56 AM xXirockhardXx OMG! my parents are always comparing me with m... Jan 30 2005, 12:06 PM thait3n O God, asian parents do it all the time..well to m... Jan 30 2005, 12:06 PM OhXiet_ItzDonnA hmm...yea i think... Jan 30 2005, 12:16 PM smthngcrprategrl34 mine do and sometimes it's just like...dude...... Jan 30 2005, 12:18 PM royalfreshness All the effing time!! I'm like dang if... Jan 30 2005, 02:33 PM turtlekid75 If he can get straight A's, why can't you?... Feb 5 2005, 02:02 AM the_crox yes. Feb 5 2005, 02:12 AM xGlovex i dont know any parents that dont.. Feb 5 2005, 11:13 AM mouse_3k yes they do. its like their job.. Feb 5 2005, 04:36 PM anqie yeah, all the time. they don't know though ... Feb 5 2005, 04:41 PM Just_Dream Pssh, of course! My half-sister was Salutorian... Feb 5 2005, 04:45 PM xcaitlinx my parents never compare me to anybody. maybe it... Feb 5 2005, 08:19 PM Funky Buddha They do and I don't care. Those kids are who t... Feb 5 2005, 08:23 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE yeah, my mom compares me to other people that does... Feb 5 2005, 09:34 PM JC4P my parents compare me to geniuses....GET A 4.0 GPA... Feb 5 2005, 09:34 PM x_angawhomps My parents (well mainly my mom) always compares me... Feb 5 2005, 10:10 PM tranquillity my mom compares me with the nerd in my class -___- Feb 6 2005, 02:24 AM nevernothere They always have to compare me to the best... and ... Feb 6 2005, 03:12 PM WhiteLotus* Me: Mom, are you going to make me my lunch?
Mom: G... Feb 15 2005, 01:20 AM mysticalazxn that a big hell yeah
they are compare me to other ... Feb 15 2005, 01:42 AM racoons > you my parents like most of my friends better than me.... Feb 17 2005, 05:09 PM Litobabygurl88 always! theres never a time that they dont Feb 17 2005, 09:34 PM doork Yeah.. Aug 30 2006, 10:29 PM Jinny yeah theyre proud of me when i get good grades, ... Jan 10 2007, 03:57 PM Intercourse Yea my mother does atleast. My dad on the other ha... Jan 10 2007, 05:38 PM a painefull euphoria my parents never compare me to anyone other than m... Jan 10 2007, 06:05 PM amerrss They do, and it really bothers me.
Because they ma... Jan 10 2007, 07:09 PM Jeng Yah they compare me to other kids, their friends, ... Jan 10 2007, 07:45 PM x1227x Oh god, yes. They compare me to my other family me... Jan 10 2007, 07:45 PM My Cinderella. Nah, only to my sister. Jan 10 2007, 07:46 PM rawr_itsjenna Yes. They compare me to my friends or just people ... Jan 10 2007, 07:53 PM No Fear They don't compare me to other people, but the... Jan 10 2007, 07:55 PM angel_revelation Yes, but usually only when I ask to go out to do s... Jan 10 2007, 10:13 PM L!ckitySplit i compare my parents to other parents.
me: ... Jan 10 2007, 10:20 PM Quarantine. actually no, they don't.. and they never have. Jan 11 2007, 12:23 AM miiichellley Yeah, my dad compares me to one of my friends who... Jan 11 2007, 12:28 AM priyas YES! especially to some of my friends. grr Jan 11 2007, 03:39 PM |
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