family problems..., ...LONG..>< Options

[Wishful_Dream]

my dad: he won't WORK. Gawd. He's like STOPPED working he wasn't even fired. He's TOO lazy to work. I tell him to go to work and he's like, "I'm too tired." Yet, he AND my mom goes to parties at night. he stopped working for about a month.. ><"

my mom: she's mostly sleeping nowadays cuz she goes with my dad at night and junk.. gahh.. and when she is home she feeds me MCDONALDS. I don't WANT mcdonalds.. when i reject it she gets MAD. Mcdonalds makes me sick now. I don't even know why.

my oldest sister: she has mental problems yea.. ><" but i don't wanna explain.. anyways, i hate it when she keeps yelling at night and waking me up.. it's really hard to sleep.. cuz i take like 3 hours to fall asleep.

my other sister: a BIGGER pain.. when i try to sleep she uses the computer.. there's like TWO.. but she chose that one and she puts the music up so high that its just killing me.

anyways, all i worry about is my dad.. if he doesn't work.. how's my family gonna live? i've been wondering that forever.. i don't even know if im still gonna go to college/university.. ya know.. i kinda really wanna die.. but i don't wanna suicide..

so.. can anyone help me on my dad? like.. how do i get him to go back to work? I tried telling him to.. but it's not working.

edit: anyways.. if no one replies i could understand why.. it's too long isn't it? =p anyways, i'm gonna go research on my homework now.. if anyone does reply.. i'll be really thankful =)

RE-EDIT: I'm fine now. I found out, by talking to my dad that he didn't like his job and was going to be assigned for a new one. His boss is finding him a different thing to do. So, I guess he's on vacation of some-sort. Anyways, Thank you everyone for your advice. I really appreciated it. =)
PS. Counseling does NOT work. I tried it. My family did. It does NOT work. It's just a waste of money, to me. Because, every family and person is different.

SOMEONE CLOSE THIS PLEASE.

[simplyannoy]

i feel soooo bad for ya >< Although i mite not understand your exact situation (since i am not you), i hope everything works out in the end. Now time for da solutions! ^^

1) If you're old enough and have some spare time, find a job! Not only for money but for experience and just in case you do need some extra money for college/university

2) talk to your dad beforehand, in other words, try talking to him about his "work behaviour" but DO NOT BLAME him for how your family is functioning right now

3) if option 2 doesn't work then talk to an adult or a guidance counselor about it.

GOOD LUCK TO YA! YOU SEEM LIKE A STRONG PERSON! ^_^