Do you think its shallow to........ Options

[Tinkerballa]

Okay here is the deal. I asked my bf if he thinks i'm pretty or beautiful(to me pretty means i'm just some average looking girl to him but beautiful means i'm more then everything to him, if that makes any sense) anyways so when i asked he said that i'm shallow. how am i shallow if i think i'm neither and that i'm shit? i mean to me from my understanding shallow people are people who only like good looking people and who think they are the best looking people i.e basically some movies stars and some super models.... notcie how i use "some" anyways what do u think.. do u think it was shallow of me to ask my bf if i was just pretty or if he thought i was beautiful? im just curiouse to his opinion of what he really thinks of me..bla

[HelplessCry]

guys you cant understand them cant live without them..damn this dman it all. but anyways you just wanted to know right maybe you were feeling down and you just wanted a little bit of perking up? everygirl needs a little attention once in a while. how can you be shallow you just want to know if your pretty or beautiful. but if he said you were pretty....how would you react to that? hmm? maybe thats what he was worried about? maybe he was afraid of both answers and how you would react. that if he said your pretty then you would probably go right to oh so you think im just pretty. and if he said beautiful maybe you would react to ohh...so your not just saying that. so he immediatly went to telling you your shallow. who knows boys are odd and to them were odd. its a natural cause but are you still talking to him? cause if this little petty thing gets into your relationship end it now and say your sorry for asking him.