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 Feb 3 2005, 12:58 AM
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I love my boyfriend. Well, he used to be my boyfriend up until a couple of days ago when he just randomly decided that he wanted to just be my friend. He wouldn't give me a reason either...
So yeah, I was really hurt by that. Really really hurt. I always told myself(and others) that I was going to wait until marriage to have sex.. or at least wait until I found the person I wanna be with forever. And I did find him. And we did, I admit, have sex. So.. I was with this guy who I wanted to be with forever and I thought he felt the same about me.. as he told me he did quite often.. And he dumped me.. I called him today. He seems to be doing fine. However, he is not the type to show any emotions at all. So he may not be. He told me he still loves me, but he just can't be with me right now because he hurts me too much. Which he doesn't. And now that he dumped me I just feel like there's no reason to live.. and every time I see him.. I end up hurting some random passerby physically. And I don't like it.. But I can't avoid him because we go to the same school. It just hurts so much seeing him... But.. he also said that if I want him back.. I have to change.. He didn't tell me what I need to change.. But I do need to.. And I really want him back.. So much... The problem is.. I don't know how.. |
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Feb 3 2005, 01:05 AM
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I know how you feel. But ask him why he broke up with you is just giving him another chance to reject you and hurt you again. my ex told me the same thing when he dumped me. And I believed him. But I soon find out it was a lie, and I was hurt more. Don't change for him. He is not worth it. I can understand how hard it is to just let go of someone you love so much. But trust me, sooner or later, he'll show you who he really is and how he truly feels about you. I suggest you don't do anything now. K uh here is what happened to me, my ex dumped me, and he said that he still love me but he just can't be with me cause his dad blah blah blah (just like your ex told you) and then a month later, he just started to act like an a-hole, trying to hook me up with this dude I don't even like, told me to get out his life, etc. So I think you should wait, don't do anything now. See who he really is. You might think he is not that kind of person. That's what I thought, too. But it turned out to be WRONG.
But If you really really want him back, go talk to him and ask him what is wrong? what do u need to change, or ask his friends or something. |
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pikimoo How do I Feb 3 2005, 12:58 AM
stephinika ask him what he says you supposedly need to change... Feb 3 2005, 01:14 AM
yukichan QUOTE(stephinika @ Feb 2 2005, 8:14 PM)ask hi... Feb 8 2005, 09:51 PM Funky Buddha ^^Agreed
Ask him what he thinks need be change. M... Feb 3 2005, 01:16 AM Wishful_Dream Okay. I know you really really REALLY want him ba... Feb 3 2005, 04:14 AM pikimoo Okay, so I asked him what I need to change.
He sa... Feb 3 2005, 08:05 PM xj_liana_tx that seems really (what the guy told you).. lame, ... Feb 3 2005, 08:10 PM sunissed14127 Ask him what you need to change. If it's somet... Feb 3 2005, 08:27 PM sweetdreamsx3 Sorry about the breakup....but iono, Maybe it... Feb 3 2005, 10:14 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE Just ask him. you won't know 'til you ask ... Feb 4 2005, 12:08 AM LittleLulu no offense or n e thing, but i think he's just... Feb 4 2005, 01:50 AM bad_girl if he gave u no reason at all, then he's being... Feb 4 2005, 07:00 AM Shortiiex tell him to look straight in your eye and tell you... Feb 4 2005, 07:42 AM Shattered_Hope I think he just wanted sex from what you're te... Feb 8 2005, 05:55 PM sammehmyst i wouldn't ask other people, this is your hear... Feb 8 2005, 06:44 PM |
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