I HATE MY EX!!!, ...............I HATE HIM!! Options

[HawaiiGirlie1212]

about a month ago, my bf dumped me. But he didnt exactly tell me he has no feelings for me anymore. He told me bunch of lies like "I really want to be with you but i can't. 'cause my dad wants me go out with this girl" blah blah blah. And then he told me to call him, which I did. But he disconnected his phone. I was super worried and cried everyday . When I finally see him, he were trying to hook me up with this dude I don't even like. And after I gets so pissed off at him , he said that he didn't mean to do that blah blah blah. And Im finally got better. he came up to me and said stuff like "Geez. just go find a guy already, would you?" "it's a really big problem for me. It bothers me." he just want me to get out of his life. But I AM out. After he has hurt me so much (cheat on me 4 times, lied to me a billion times. Liked 4 ppl at once, etc) and he has to hurt me again even after we broke up! Is All guys like that?! or is it just him??
Any idea what I should do???

[Just_Dream]

I have to admit, there are quite a few horrible guys out there in the world and those kind of boys are a DISGRACE to men. Although, I know that there are PLENTY of wonderful guys out there who aren't like your ex-boyfriend. Just start ignoring him. It seems like he thinks you actually give him attention, even though you're just trying to move on. Just forget about him. If you're out of his life, then you shouldn't be hurt. Next time he says that to you, just look him sternly in the eye and say "Stop thinking that the world revolves around you, because it doesn't. I've been over you. Maybe it's you who's not yet over me. How about YOU get the heck out of my life first." I know that might sound a little cheesy/lame, but tell him what's what.

I know you've probably heard this cliché a million times, but I'm still going to say it: "There's plenty of fish in the sea."