Disturbing story |
 Jan 31 2005, 04:25 PM
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well now, i feel like i can tell you more than i can tell my friends because you're complete strangers, so here i go.
 I have this friend. She was my best friend for a long time. And then we started liking each other. We both told each other how we felt. And everything was great. I asked her if she would be my girlfriend, and she declined. She told me that although she loved me, she didn't want a boyfriend. So i was understanding and didn't spread it (i have no idea why). This was about a week ago. Ok now this is where it gets strange. Yesterday she started going out with someone. Yea. Exactly the way it sounds. You're probably wondering, "Wait, how did it get from her liking you to her dating someone else? Did you skip part of the story?" No. No i didn't. That is sequential, without missing any events. She forgot i was there. She stopped loving me, and started loving someone else. And she didn't tell me. I only found out she didn't like me anymore and liked someone else because i read it on her xanga. She kept me dragging along. She forgot about me. And now she's wondering why im upset. Background information: From this story she would seem like a slut. But in reality, she isn't, which makes it even stranger. She is more on the shy side. Now this is my problem. Im not a man of grudges. But in this case, i think i should change my principles a bit. What do you think? This story makes me sick 
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Jan 31 2005, 05:22 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
That is really strange... Maybe:
a. she didn't really feel the same but didn't want to hurt you b. she mistook her strong feelings of "friendship love" for romantic feelings c. she just had a change of feelings... it happens |
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Jan 31 2005, 06:01 PM
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You people don't understand what im saying. We were best friends. And i would understand if she didn't like me anymore and didn't want to tell me. But she started going out with someone else. And she was completely public about it. If she had a change of heart i can live with that. I don't love her anymore. But the fact that my best friend acted like she cared and then dropped this bombshell is what drives me crazy.
And godamn, she knows that if she doesn't like me anymore she should just tell me. She knows that already. How about that? |
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Feb 1 2005, 07:50 AM
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QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Jan 31 2005, 3:01 PM) You people don't understand what im saying. We were best friends. And i would understand if she didn't like me anymore and didn't want to tell me. But she started going out with someone else. And she was completely public about it. If she had a change of heart i can live with that. I don't love her anymore. But the fact that my best friend acted like she cared and then dropped this bombshell is what drives me crazy. And godamn, she knows that if she doesn't like me anymore she should just tell me. She knows that already. How about that?  ...maybe she simply forgot about you... like if your with your loved one or something you kinda forget bout everything else.. =/ maybe she DID like you before.. but stopped.. and found the one she truly liked or something.. =/ you can't force her to tell you everytime she feels something.. anyways, you said you stopped loving her.. then why is she still driving you crazy? couldn't she have stopped loving YOU too? x_X why does she have to tell you? she already declined to be your gf. didn't THAT show anything? your right.. she should've told you.. but she chose not to.. it's her choice. |
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ermfermoo Disturbing story Jan 31 2005, 04:25 PM
ermfermoo QUOTE(Wishful_Dream @ Feb 1 2005, 7:50 AM)...... Feb 2 2005, 08:58 PM
SuiE i agree with the above.. maybe she just didnt feel... Jan 31 2005, 05:26 PM Chii that doesn't mean she's a slut if she like... Jan 31 2005, 05:51 PM xj_liana_tx maybe she doesn't like you anymore. Jan 31 2005, 06:01 PM lidoaznboi89 that's sad. yea she hsould of told you.. what... Jan 31 2005, 08:17 PM jooleeah Maybe she was nervous about telling you...but she ... Jan 31 2005, 08:21 PM Zz4evaJeLLo07 dude dats harsh.. =/ i dink... if she was shy she ... Jan 31 2005, 08:33 PM snak3y3z1001 Maybe she knows she likes you based on lust and do... Jan 31 2005, 08:36 PM stephinika hmm she probably wasn't thinking or didn't... Jan 31 2005, 09:17 PM sunissed14127 I would talk to her about it, and say why she lied... Jan 31 2005, 09:20 PM novemberwind i would say that she liked you but inside maybe sh... Jan 31 2005, 09:40 PM xxaznxgurlxx she probally just wanted to play around with u. ... Jan 31 2005, 11:00 PM swtchangel hmm since you guys are jst the best of friends the... Feb 2 2005, 12:42 AM Azarel Over how long of a time period was this?
Bleh, I s... Feb 2 2005, 12:50 AM wind&fire youre a guy....oh.....
i think she just got over ... Feb 2 2005, 12:54 AM yanners ouch that sucks. maybe because she didnt want to ... Feb 2 2005, 05:30 AM LEDO_D0RKETTE she might be going out with someone she likes ... Feb 2 2005, 08:48 PM xGlovex That is really strange... Maybe:
a. she didn't... Feb 2 2005, 09:13 PM blowpops69 o god.
she might have not been interested with yo... Feb 2 2005, 10:02 PM sweetdreamsx3 That sucks, esp when she doesn't want a boyfri... Feb 2 2005, 10:04 PM Shattered_Hope this is probably the reason...
she didnt want to r... Feb 3 2005, 05:58 PM leeniex3 mayb shes afraid to fall in more love with you X:... Feb 3 2005, 06:14 PM bad_girl weird.
1) maybe she has short term memory
2) ask... Feb 4 2005, 07:03 AM Shortiiex it is hard to get someone you love out of your min... Feb 4 2005, 07:44 AM |
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