Need Advice..., hurting..dunno what to do? |
 Jan 31 2005, 12:18 AM
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sry it didnt post when I went to post it....but here...
I know ive posted before about this but I just need some really good advice n help....My ex bf that im madly in love with we've been very lovey dovey n tellin eachother everyday that we love eachother and all of that, and this past week he has gotten a new gf and all the sudden he doesnt really talk to me. He is in RI im in PA I was talking to him over IM and he told me that he wants to be 100% honest with me that he loves me and wants to be with me and cant wait to come down then he said that since we cant be together with eachother now we can both go out with other ppl and that's then when he told me he has a new gf well I asked him if he did. The he said he didnt wanna hurt me and that he wants me to go get a bf so he wont feel bad. He's coming down im April n then coming back down here for college. Im scared cuz I dont wanna lose him cuz im soo inlove with him and. It's so hard I keep thinking about how this new gf he has he could fall inlove with her and that's what I dont want to happen. Now he doesnt really talk to me much or as much as we did before he got this gf we talked every single day n now it's just not the same. My heart is broken it really hurts. I just dunno what to do. I know people tell me to get over him or they say sumthing like he's not worth it, noone understands how inlove with him I am. Every single day he's on my mind 24/7 he's the first thing I think of when I wake up, and when I go to sleep. Ive never been this inlove with someone well I never really been with anyone..I need some great advice 
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Jan 31 2005, 08:41 PM
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when he comes over ta visit you, talk to him. face to face, alone. don't go somewhere public, you needa confront him. if he's not lying then don't be afraid to tell him how much you really DO love him. tell him that if he really has moved on then all ya want him to be is happi. don't let your wants and emotions overwhelm you oki?
and ykno wat? if he really DOES care? he'll kno there is ALWAYZ gonna be a 100% chance you'll make it thru da relationship TOGETHER and STILL be IN LOVE. tell him dat he's hurting u even more bai telling you to move on. and tell him dat... u love... a lot. dats all i can really think of... but hey~ wateva u do. no regrets. |
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angelbabystar Need Advice... Jan 31 2005, 12:18 AM
Wishful_Dream i'm sorry but... isn't he your ex already?... Jan 31 2005, 03:32 AM yanners yeah...isnt he your ex? go out have fun, meet new... Jan 31 2005, 05:58 AM _sarcastic_ like everyone else said, isn't he your ex? i ... Jan 31 2005, 06:23 AM dahding live a little. "grab a spoon and dig in!... Jan 31 2005, 09:18 AM Chii this is wrong...in my point of view, it seems like... Jan 31 2005, 10:08 AM PrideOfAzia thats damn good advice Jan 31 2005, 11:31 AM angelbabystar That is some good advice thanks..At times that... Jan 31 2005, 06:32 PM mishyerr What chii said
but I disagree with everyone who s... Jan 31 2005, 07:00 PM snak3y3z1001 Get rid of him. Long distance never/rarely works o... Jan 31 2005, 08:43 PM novemberwind sometimes you just have to sit there and hurt for ... Jan 31 2005, 08:48 PM snak3y3z1001 Just noticed you said this was your first releatio... Jan 31 2005, 08:57 PM angelbabystar I didnt say this is my first relationship. Just th... Jan 31 2005, 09:11 PM sunissed14127 tell him how you feel....like how he broke your he... Jan 31 2005, 09:15 PM snak3y3z1001 o. the way you said it sounded like that you... Jan 31 2005, 09:19 PM
angelbabystar the gf he's with now he said he's with her... Jan 31 2005, 09:24 PM |
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