Shyness..., ruins it Options

[mistaken_identit...]

There's this guy I like in my class, and I'm pretty sure he 'likes' me 'cause he tries to talk to me, he plays with my hair etc. -when he normally acts like he doesn't care 'bout girls-like NOTHING.

I've told a couple of people that aren't in my school about this and they told me to get a mate and...ask him who he likes and sorta do the trick- get him ask me out, but I REALLY can't do this 'cause in my school it's just...almost like a crime to tell people who you like. It spreads to the whole school in less than a day and it's just embarassing...if I do that it'll probably be dead end 'cause he'll freak out- and I don't know if I can deal with all that pressure of people teasing and shyt.

The problem though, is we're both shy...and I just hope he could...y'know ask me out or something.

Sorry ithis sounds so confusing -but I really dunno wat to do

[heidi8822]

ya there's this guy i like at the school im at. i just moved down here about 3 months ago and i had a class w/ him last sem and he sat next to me. he was funny and really nice n stuff. and i think if i wasnt so shy i couldve been friends w/ him by now . but um anyways, he'll walk by in the halls and he'll glance at me usually...it's sort of wierd. but we're too shy to say hey or anything. and i dont know if hed want to be friends with me or not so im scared on what to do and that my chance is almost gone...got any ideas?