Ignoring me, broke up, now what?! |
 Jan 28 2005, 01:22 PM
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 Spiffy!  Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,856  |
Okay, so i just broke up with my bf a week ago, and now he's completely ignoring me and avoiding me.
In addition, he's also flirting with A LOT of girls. Which bugs me, of course, since I love him a lot still. I was hoping that we could still be good friends, but when I try to say 'hi' or start a conversation politely, he answers me and then looks down awkwardly until I leave. Does anybody know why he's doing this?  Am I scaring him?
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Jan 28 2005, 08:28 PM
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watch out for jellyfish. Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,672 |
if you guys broke upp, he obviously doesn`t like you anymore y`knoe? i don`t think he`s trying to be mean to you or anything.. but probably doesn`t wanna remember bad memories or anything like that. it`s normal, he`s juzt going through that break-up-time-for-someone-new phase.
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Jan 30 2005, 11:09 AM
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QUOTE(lilconfusedbabiix3 @ Jan 28 2005, 8:28 PM) if you guys broke upp, he obviously doesn`t like you anymore y`knoe? i don`t think he`s trying to be mean to you or anything.. but probably doesn`t wanna remember bad memories or anything like that. it`s normal, he`s juzt going through that break-up-time-for-someone-new phase.  100% correct. He's flirting with other girls because he's trying to get back into the game. Hes not flirting with you because you two broke up, which usually means you aren't interested in each other anymore. He's uncomfortable being around you because hes going through post-breakup stress, not because hes trying to be mean. I think with work you two will eventually be friends again. |
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misstwiggy Ignoring me Jan 28 2005, 01:22 PM
br0ken smile my ex boyfriend did the same thing too. he ignore... Jan 28 2005, 01:38 PM illfadedsoldier I'm a guy and I've had a girl break up wit... Jan 28 2005, 04:02 PM
honorguard QUOTE(illfadedsoldier @ Jan 29 2005, 6:02 AM)... Jan 28 2005, 10:11 PM stephinika k if you guys broke up i can kind of see why thats... Jan 28 2005, 07:40 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE Maybe he just need space? Try talking to him after... Jan 28 2005, 11:49 PM yukichan QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jan 28 2005, 6:49 PM)Ma... Jan 29 2005, 02:04 AM _sarcastic_ ^ at first i thought the both of you were the same... Jan 29 2005, 09:24 AM __Nessa he feels like hes lost something, dont worry about... Jan 29 2005, 04:34 PM DaToNeViEtBoI916 Flirting is his way of coping with the situation. ... Jan 29 2005, 05:25 PM helllla jankyyyy wait a while..maybe he needs his space Jan 29 2005, 05:43 PM blowpops69 so whyd u break up with himif u still 'love... Jan 29 2005, 09:41 PM silver rain eh, well my ex did that to me too when he broke up... Jan 29 2005, 11:51 PM summer_gal93 Maybe he just needs time...mayb he still likes you... Jan 30 2005, 12:01 AM leeniex3 forget about them ... just go flirt with tons of o... Jan 30 2005, 01:07 AM yanners you broke up and you want to know what to do? i... Jan 30 2005, 03:29 AM SuiE hes probablii jus uncomfortable around you foo now... Jan 30 2005, 10:55 AM alone in the world aah, i understand you completely.
how immature. yo... Jan 30 2005, 11:10 AM sheepy well i guess he feels insecure is and trying to ma... Jan 30 2005, 12:02 PM |
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