what a controversial xanga post..., what do you think? Options

[*stephinika*]

okay well...let me explain. i posted this thing on xanga and i'll post it here so my story makes sense:

i thought i'd start off with this thing i found on royalfreshness's xanga while i was browsing...
"choose 15 people that you'd want to say some things to, but would never say it to their face."
but...before i begin, just a note: the only reason i'm actually doing this list is cause i don't feel like starting shit with people. or i'm too lazy to actually go out and say this stuff...not so much i'm afraid to, though i will admit some are partly that but not all. or maybe i've already said this stuff hmm? who knows.  anyways. on with it.
1 // you think are so f**king hot don't you? seriously. your ego is way too inflated...okay so you are pretty, talented, etc...but you don't need to rub it in everyone's face all the time...doesn't make you that important. so quit it. seriously.
2 // its great that your life is so wonderful right now and all and i am happy for you...but you don't need to constantly tell me how to live. i know you mean well but...its gets to be...discouraging at times. i don't know.
3 // you are beautiful. i just wish you would accept that. i don't say shit to be nice...i hate that. i say it because you truly are if only you could realize it yourself...you're an amazing person. cut yourself some slack.
4 // why did you have to go and ruin it with that one small fact about you? otherwise, i would have seen you as practically perfect before...but now...no. but you seem to have improved but meh. i don't care about you so much anymore but you still tend to catch my eye when i see you pass by...
5 // you disgust me. you're way too cocky for your own good...so what if you're hot? you're still a jackass...i thought you were cool but i soon changed my mind. and what a liar you are...stop attempting to show off. how shallow can you get? you are almost (note: almost) partly why i left.
6 // what a hypocrite you are. and prejudiced. i hate you.
7 // you'll never know just how much i truly do care for you...my god. its unbelievable. i'd give up anything for you...you are an amazing person. i mean that. but i always wonder...do i mean the same to you? i feel like you do sometimes but...i honestly really don't know.
8 // how can i like and dislike you both at the same time so much? i'm oddly comfortable and uncomfortable around you too...i don't understand it but whatever...
9 // hopeless. that's all i can say about you. you're a great person but...hopeless. i suppose you will learn things in time but so far...not much progress has been made. meh. nothing more i can do. *shrug*
10 // you are a wonderful person but still...you seem so immature to me sometimes. that has such a negative connotation, but its the only word i can think of at the moment. but anyways, maybe its just me. or something. because i feel so much older around you sometimes though i shouldn't. maybe its our different experiences.
11 // you annoy me sometimes. some days you are so sweet and others, all you can do is piss me off. quit the double act. two-faced people piss me off a great deal. and i would rather not be constantly upset with you. you can be funny, but you need to grow up a bit still.
12 // quit trying to be cool. its just annoying in general. i didn't mind you too much before...but now its getting really annoying. yes, you want to be popular but...no. not happening.
13 // i love you more and more each day...but at the same time...i don't? that makes no sense but whatever. sigh. life is too confusing.
14 // you are another shallow one. stop going after the so-called 'hotties'...for once, like someone for who they are instead of what they look like. yes, physical attraction is totally fine...but once in awhile...a lot actually...you tend to push it.
15 // why are you like this? why? why must you constantly lie to yourself over and over...?

well. a friend of mine who i'm able to be surprisingly honest with most of the time asked what number she was and i told her. then we kind of got into an argument about how i shouldn't have done it anonymously and now i must deal with the 'damage' etc...not that many of my friends read my xanga but people talk as she put it. now. i know all the 'wrongs' of this list thanks to her now but anyways...i'm not going to remove it. its my xanga and my friend also pointed out i'd look like a coward if i did. but anyways...
just wondering what people think of the situation. would you be mad if you found this on your friends xanga? what would you say to them? would you even say anything? would you have posted a list like this? i dont know...
i could just use some opinions. please and thank you.

[to-devastate]

Well you're friend is stupid. Haha.
I mean; it's your xanga. Your free will to write whatever you please. If they don't like it, tell them to go f*ck themselves because it's called freedom of speech.

Would you be mad if you found this on your friends xanga?
depends if it's directed towards me. lol.

What would you say to them? would you even say anything?
I'd say it's my life; my words; go suck a c*ck. Like I care what you think.. it's my xanga- i should feel free to write whatever i please.

Would you have posted a list like this?
yeah; sure. :] I love anomonyous(sp?) bashing

[Chii]

Well you're friend is stupid. Haha.
I mean; it's your xanga. Your free will to write whatever you please. If they don't like it, tell them to go f*ck themselves because it's called freedom of speech.

actually...you can't just write anything on your xanga

this is the first bullet in the terms or use on xanga

Xanga's Terms of Use is designed primarily to protect our members. To help maintain a safe and fun environment at Xanga, you must agree not to use Xanga's products or services to:

upload, post, email or otherwise transmit any Content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, tortious, defamatory, vulgar, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable;

..and freedom of speech doesn't mean that you can say whatever the f*ck you want...



Would you be mad if you found this on your friends xanga?
i wouldn't, people are entitled to their opinions

What would you say to them? would you even say anything?
i might ask which one i am, it depends on the person, but if everything is really bad i wouldn't really want to know...if it's like a good close friend, i'd ask and try to fix the problem he/she has with me

Would you have posted a list like this?
yeah i would have...


it's not such a big deal that you made a list like that, because it's like you're protecting other people's feelings, and plus if they weren't so oblivious when it comes to you, they'd know who they are