being friends of a person that other friend hates, solutions pls! |
being friends of a person that other friend hates, solutions pls! |
Jan 28 2005, 08:02 PM
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stage 1- me, friend A, B, C are friends one another
stage 2- B doesn't want to be friends with A anymore because A gets in B's nerves, but A doesn't know how B feels about her stage 3- a fight- started by me (just listening to A's rumors and said B doesn't treat C as a friend, but finally i put a public apology and this fight is over), at that time me and A are friends, and B and C are friends, separately my group doesn't hang out with B's group (B hates A very much) stage 4- A always blames me about losing her friend B, and C also, even now stage 5- me, B, and C got in a better relationship, become friends again, and I am still A's friend, A doesn't know me, B, and C are together again stage 6- A finally finds out i chatting with B and C and thinks i am making out the relationship with them because i am a loner (my view: I AM NOT A LONER!), so A gets mad at me stage 7- i told B and my other friend about this and they both said i was right and i should ignore A what should i do to make me still be friends with B and C without getting A mad at me? |
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Jan 28 2005, 08:13 PM
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wow, i put my friends in that same situation, wells not really.. but yea, you shuold talk to your friends more, if they dont want to be friends with the other, you cant force them, first thing to do, secondly.. you have to know its not your fault, its your friends problem, you shouldnt always have to help them out, cause that might make the other friend get mad at you, so you should tell your friend to talk to the other friend becasue you just taking to them wont work..
i had to talk to that person and to the other person for me to be friends with both of them.. get it? sorry if it is confusing.. best of luck.. |
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rockacola being friends of a person that other friend hates Jan 28 2005, 08:02 PM
Chii that's kind of dumb, why is A mad at you? you... Jan 28 2005, 08:11 PM
littlewhite in my personal view, A is too subjective, it is a ... Jan 28 2005, 10:20 PM
gponce10104 your confuseing me...xD Jan 28 2005, 11:43 PM
xd0rkette A sounds like a b*tch. Ditch her and go hang out w... Jan 28 2005, 11:45 PM
Shattered_Hope QUOTE(xd0rkette @ Jan 29 2005, 12:45 AM)A sou... Feb 2 2005, 09:58 PM
LEDO_D0RKETTE I think you should leave them alone. Let them work... Jan 28 2005, 11:58 PM
yukichan i didnt get it...sorry... Jan 29 2005, 02:08 AM
laugh2much tooo complacated for me o_O Jan 29 2005, 10:03 AM
yanners why dont you just let them work it out themselves? Jan 29 2005, 10:22 AM
littlewhite ignore A, in my perspective, A is going to be a lo... Jan 29 2005, 05:03 PM![]() ![]() |