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engaged, stupid to stay?
toki
post Jan 27 2005, 10:45 PM
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would u stay with a guy that has previously been engaged and still talks with that person? and u are at a young age as well as him..

also would u believe him that he only loves you?

u = 17
he = 20
 
 
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toki
post Jan 27 2005, 11:14 PM
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interesting.
well the thing is..i've found some of her sites..lol im not a stalker..but i mean..i do get curious so i cant help but to look for them?
neways..
well i've seen on he xanga things like "o i love him" blah blah blah...and how shes so in love wid the guy as if they are still together..i asked him if they were and he told me yes/no...yes because of complications that i wasnt quite told about..but then hes like "trust me i love YOU"...

so in other words..hes engaged to his girl and technically still sorting some stuff out wid her..yet hes wid me..and she dunno but i think she kinda does (what i mean by this is that he hasnt told her about it but i think she suspects it).
 
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post Jan 28 2005, 11:57 AM
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QUOTE(toki @ Jan 27 2005, 11:14 PM)
so in other words..hes engaged to his girl and technically still sorting some stuff out wid her..yet hes wid me..and she dunno but i think she kinda does (what i mean by this is that he hasnt told her about it but i think she suspects it).
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what? if he's still engaged to her then you really shouldn't be with him...he could just be playing you for all you know...if he really loved you, both of you should wait until all the stuff is sorted out

he seems a little too controlling...i'm pretty sure i've been there before...when you know you should get out but at the same time you can't because you believe that you love him so much...

look at it this way, if he really loved you, would you feel mistreated? if he really loved you, wouldn't he trust you? plus, if he really loved you, wouldn't he listen to your point of view on things instead of believing in that guys are always right? and the biggest thing...if he really loved you, why is he still engaged?

leave him as soon as you can...the longer you stay with him the more it's going to hurt sad.gif
 

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