He's making me..., so confused |
 Jan 27 2005, 09:07 AM
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Look sorry guys I have posted this problem here before, but I really need you guy's help when it comes to things like this because..
There's this guy I like. And for like 2 months or so I've been feeling so confused, so depressed 'cause he's giving me no MAJOR signs that he likes me or whatsoever. It's not like he doesn't know I exist. We have a lot of eye contact (I mean, a lot, he never looks away), talk a bit and he basically does most of the things people say when a guy like you. It's okay when I know the guy doesn't like me, or doesn't even know I exist. If that's the case I would've given up. But THIS is different. It's not like he hates me or anything.... I don't know...argh I always feel depressed about this 'cause I'm like caught in the middle of something I don't know if it's worth waiting for or not. 
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Jan 27 2005, 04:07 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
All I have to say about this....
..communication is the number 1 way to know. Non verbal communication like eye contact can be nice, however you wouldn't know his heart. To know his heart, please talk to him... I regret not making the first move on my high school sweetheart. That eventually turned out to be my best friend in the end. That was my fault. I was too shy to admit my heart to her....but I found someone new...a lot later though... ..we all learn from our mistakes. Communicate to him. Open up to him. Find out his marital status...have a nice lunch with him =) Making good eye contact IS A GREAT START! Now all you need to do is escalate it...if you find out eventually he doesn't like you... ...at least you found out yourself and you can put your restless soul to peace =) Good luck! -Kevyn |
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Jan 27 2005, 10:15 PM
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QUOTE(Kneuklid Romance @ Jan 27 2005, 1:07 PM) All I have to say about this.... ..communication is the number 1 way to know. Non verbal communication like eye contact can be nice, however you wouldn't know his heart. To know his heart, please talk to him... I regret not making the first move on my high school sweetheart. That eventually turned out to be my best friend in the end. That was my fault. I was too shy to admit my heart to her....but I found someone new...a lot later though... ..we all learn from our mistakes. Communicate to him. Open up to him. Find out his marital status...have a nice lunch with him =) Making good eye contact IS A GREAT START! Now all you need to do is escalate it...if you find out eventually he doesn't like you... ...at least you found out yourself and you can put your restless soul to peace =) Good luck! -Kevyn  great advice and i fully agree. 
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mistaken_identity He's making me... Jan 27 2005, 09:07 AM
yanners hm..maybe you should get to know him better, then ... Jan 27 2005, 09:17 AM
cocoalightning27 QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 27 2005, 9:17 AM)hm..m... Jan 27 2005, 04:09 PM
pinayprincess QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 27 2005, 9:17 AM)hm..m... Jan 27 2005, 11:26 PM captured_serenity just make the first move... Jan 27 2005, 09:20 AM _sarcastic_ QUOTE(captured_serenity @ Jan 27 2005, 9:20 A... Jan 27 2005, 04:11 PM yukichan QUOTE(Kneuklid Romance @ Jan 27 2005, 11:07 A... Jan 27 2005, 09:15 PM Shattered_Hope Just becuz you make eye contact doesnt mean anythi... Jan 27 2005, 04:20 PM dahding make the first move then. if he's too much of ... Jan 27 2005, 06:21 PM xd0rkette Every guy is confusing.
If he doesn't show any... Jan 27 2005, 07:03 PM wun_chink_baybe sometimes it's not that great to make the firs... Jan 27 2005, 08:41 PM heidi8822 yeah i'm sort of in the same situation. there... Jan 27 2005, 09:26 PM shewasradiant no major signals? chances are he might only see yo... Jan 28 2005, 12:45 AM mistaken_identity Thanks so much guys. I liked your advices.
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