really confusing situation =[ Options

[aznguy711]

im in kind of a bind rite now..im not sure what i should do...ok like my gf lives kinda far from me and i dont see her that often...its been fine for 6months now but recently it feels like we're drifting apart. she has a bestfrend who livess near her and is in love with her..he's always there for her wen she needs it..and yst she told me that her aunt was telling her that the bestfrend was a better choice then me because i was too far away and it seems like he cares more...so i asked her and she sed that she does love him..i gess the time they spend together has grown into something...but she also said that she could never leave me, like theres a force inside her that will not let her leave me, even though she loves him she couldnt be with him, like she cant see herself doing that..its just the feeling of "love" that she has for him...so i told her that she has to choose since if she doesnt chose and keeps it the way it is now, its like she has 2 bfs, one official and one who really does the part, if she doesnt choose then we'll just run into a larger obstacle later on cuz we could continue to drift...i dunno i dont want to lose her, yet i cant see myself making her unhappy...honestly i see that he could be a better bf then me, but i cant let her go, and she wont let me go...she's really confused rite now and doesnt kno what to do....if we do stey together, i still wont be able tosee her frequently until im in college which is in another year..so yea...im so lost rite now

[lilsweetdevil08]

Oh honey, dude! YOu need to get urself together. She lives soo far away and if you guys are drifting apart, JUST END IT. She loves another guy. If she can't leave you for another guy she loves, then you just end it with her. It's going to hurt, because when she kisses another guy, when she does stuff with another guy, when she has sex with that guy, YOU ARE GOING TO BE HURT SO BAD. You need to just stick at being friends.