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 Jan 26 2005, 04:12 PM
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im in kind of a bind rite now..im not sure what i should do...ok like my gf lives kinda far from me and i dont see her that often...its been fine for 6months now but recently it feels like we're drifting apart. she has a bestfrend who livess near her and is in love with her..he's always there for her wen she needs it..and yst she told me that her aunt was telling her that the bestfrend was a better choice then me because i was too far away and it seems like he cares more...so i asked her and she sed that she does love him..i gess the time they spend together has grown into something...but she also said that she could never leave me, like theres a force inside her that will not let her leave me, even though she loves him she couldnt be with him, like she cant see herself doing that..its just the feeling of "love" that she has for him...so i told her that she has to choose since if she doesnt chose and keeps it the way it is now, its like she has 2 bfs, one official and one who really does the part, if she doesnt choose then we'll just run into a larger obstacle later on cuz we could continue to drift...i dunno
 i dont want to lose her, yet i cant see myself making her unhappy...honestly i see that he could be a better bf then me, but i cant let her go, and she wont let me go...she's really confused rite now and doesnt kno what to do....if we do stey together, i still wont be able tosee her frequently until im in college which is in another year..so yea...im so lost rite now
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Jan 26 2005, 10:19 PM
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" if you love someone let them go, if they come back to you, it was forever yours. "
you made the right decion to let her choose who she wants to be with. i think you should let her go because long distance relationships doesn't work that well. since her bestfriends lives closer to her, then it's the best for her. |
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Jan 27 2005, 12:09 AM
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QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jan 26 2005, 10:19 PM) [font=Arial]" if you love someone let them go, if they come back to you, it was forever yours. " some believe that you let them go casue they hurted you and they dont wanna be with you... you should really talk to her becasue if she loves him, then why doesns eh want to be with you, does she still love you or just want to be with you, does she need someone, let her be with the one she is closest too and loves.. |
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aznguy711 really confusing situation =[ Jan 26 2005, 04:12 PM
Azarel Think about it. Would you want to have her be with... Jan 26 2005, 04:13 PM aznguy711 well she loves him...but shes told me that she wil... Jan 26 2005, 04:21 PM Shattered_Hope you did pretty good telling her she had to choose.... Jan 26 2005, 04:23 PM Azarel ... okay, this is the exact reason I don't act... Jan 26 2005, 04:24 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura she has mind of someone else already. let her go a... Jan 26 2005, 10:31 PM xd0rkette ^agreed with top posts :]
You should break up wit... Jan 26 2005, 10:37 PM yanners if she already told you that she loved him...i thi... Jan 27 2005, 09:05 AM
lilsweetdevil08 Oh honey, dude! YOu need to get urself togethe... Jan 27 2005, 11:08 AM |
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