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 Jan 26 2005, 06:40 PM
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grr... today me and my so-called "best friend" ruthie had a fight.
i walked into lunch and saw that she was depressed. so i sat down and asked her wat was wrong. she ignored me and didn't tell me...so i was pissed off and didn`t talk to her. Then, i started talking to my other friend about some random thing...and out of nowhere ruthie starts bashing me for no reason. She goes on about how what im saying is wrong...and when i say "ok...i made a mistake..." she keeps on going on and on. I know that she was upset and all [i still have no idea WHY!] but she has no right to tell me off. So...after she yelled at me i told her off. i said " all because ur upset about something it doesnt mean that u have to take it out on people and make them mad with you " she got all mad and said that i wasnt even a real friend. then on AIM we were arguing and she said that I don't understand her and don't help her with any of her problems. How am i supposed to know what her problem is if she WONT tell me? Whenever I say what i feel or think to her...instead of talking about it...she yells at me and says that im wrong/insists that she's right. I can't take it anymore! Ugh..now we're not talking right now. What should I do? If i apologize [which is the only way that she will be my friend again] then ill just feel stupid...knowing that i didn't do anything wrong in the first place. any advice? 
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Jan 26 2005, 09:10 PM
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I think you should definetly stand your ground. She has no right being mad at you for something you don't even know about.
BUT You have to understand that something is bothering her. You don't know what it is, so you don't know how important it is yet. I suggest you just keep your distance untill things cool down and she is ready to talk, and then you can conversate like humans. Good luck. |
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Jan 26 2005, 09:14 PM
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QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Jan 26 2005, 9:10 PM) I think you should definetly stand your ground. She has no right being mad at you for something you don't even know about. BUT You have to understand that something is bothering her. You don't know what it is, so you don't know how important it is yet. I suggest you just keep your distance untill things cool down and she is ready to talk, and then you can conversate like humans. Good luck.  ^ i agree with you. just leave her alone for a bit, if you don't things will be wayy worse than it already is. don't let her bring you down because you didn't do anything. good luck. |
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xcaitlinx ugh! Jan 26 2005, 06:40 PM
gponce10104 hmmm... well mabye you should leave her alone for ... Jan 26 2005, 06:54 PM Shattered_Hope stand your ground. I think you're right and yo... Jan 26 2005, 06:59 PM
stephinika QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Jan 26 2005, 3:59 PM)s... Jan 26 2005, 08:52 PM Skyline Drive I get you.. I'm kind of going through a simila... Jan 26 2005, 07:10 PM th5418 Find new friends. :) Jan 26 2005, 07:50 PM lidoaznboi89 i am kinda in the same situatiuon with you. but it... Jan 26 2005, 09:04 PM lidoaznboi89 i am kinda in the same situatiuon with you. but it... Jan 26 2005, 09:06 PM alienchik back off for a bit. i did that with my friend. we ... Feb 13 2005, 03:03 AM x_angawhomps Oh god, there are so many damn bxtches in the worl... Feb 13 2005, 07:28 AM dahding 1. stand your ground.
2. leave her alone for a whi... Feb 13 2005, 09:35 AM sammehmyst Give her time. Obviously she is going through some... Feb 13 2005, 11:23 AM racoons > you leave her alone... she'll deal with it.
every... Feb 13 2005, 12:42 PM sweetdreamsx3 Don't give it. Do not apologize because you di... Feb 13 2005, 01:11 PM aznhunnie6o1 I say, leave her. First off, she's your best f... Feb 13 2005, 02:18 PM |
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