ugh!, i have to let out all of my hatred. Options

[*xcaitlinx*]

grr... today me and my so-called "best friend" ruthie had a fight.

i walked into lunch and saw that she was depressed. so i sat down and asked her wat was wrong. she ignored me and didn't tell me...so i was pissed off and didn`t talk to her. Then, i started talking to my other friend about some random thing...and out of nowhere ruthie starts bashing me for no reason. She goes on about how what im saying is wrong...and when i say "ok...i made a mistake..." she keeps on going on and on. I know that she was upset and all [i still have no idea WHY!] but she has no right to tell me off. So...after she yelled at me i told her off. i said " all because ur upset about something it doesnt mean that u have to take it out on people and make them mad with you " she got all mad and said that i wasnt even a real friend.

then on AIM we were arguing and she said that I don't understand her and don't help her with any of her problems. How am i supposed to know what her problem is if she WONT tell me? Whenever I say what i feel or think to her...instead of talking about it...she yells at me and says that im wrong/insists that she's right. I can't take it anymore! Ugh..now we're not talking right now. What should I do? If i apologize [which is the only way that she will be my friend again] then ill just feel stupid...knowing that i didn't do anything wrong in the first place.

any advice?

[lidoaznboi89]

i am kinda in the same situatiuon with you. but its just my friend.. he was mad at me and i odnt even know why.. and yeah.. now it been 5 months since he tlak to me.. yes i know its a waste of my time.. lol

eventually she will get over it. but give her space. and try to talk to her and figure out what is wrong and what you can do about it, even if its not your fault..