mature love or infatuation? |
 Jan 24 2005, 02:18 AM
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okay, this has been bugging me lately. I have these 2 friends who are coupled. but all they do is fight. most of the time about the most insignificant things. they get like..jealous of each other when we hang out...which means theres like...no trust. and the whole thing all together jus drains them of energy. and they dont even talk to each other about their problems that they have with each other!! how is a relationship supposed to work if theres not even that communication?? all they do is just like...set it aside and act as if it didnt happen. it tears me apart seeing them like this, but they claim to love each other.
i dunno, i've been kinda indifferent about this whole relationship stuff, esp in high school cuz u dont kno about the colleges and its jus blah..anyway thats besides the point my point is, i just dont kno wat to do/say to them anymore when they come to vent to me. from the way i see it tho, it seems to me like their love is more along the lines of infatuation or immature love. like...i kno i shouldnt be butting into their business cuz...hey, its their relationship right? who am i to judge. but still....its jus..aggravating to see 2 of my best friends so miserable 
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Jan 26 2005, 07:28 PM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
Just because they fight doesn't mean they don't love eachother.
Jealousy? Well, it hurts when you love someone so much and they go and do things that would make you jealous. It's not a lack of trust in eachother. It's wanting to be with them all the time. Not wanting to let go.. but knowing that one day, you may have to. It hurts a lot. They probably do talk to eachother. And it probably makes things worse. Or.. are they with eachother like, ALL THE TIME? And their friends kinda get angry when they just spend time with eachother? It's a frustrating feeling choosing between hanging out with friends and being with someone you love all the time. It gets to the point where you want to do both.. but it just isn't allowed sometimes. It is nice to have a friend to vent to though. A good friend would always be there. No matter what. I don't know these people, but I wish them luck with their relationship. Sorry.. I know some people going through this.. |
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lilmizannie mature love or infatuation? Jan 24 2005, 02:18 AM
_sarcastic_ talk to them about it, help them out , just don... Jan 24 2005, 05:54 AM yanners infatuation. leave them alone..they should sort o... Jan 24 2005, 07:09 AM KissMe2408 hmm..well all relationships have fights in them or... Jan 24 2005, 01:18 PM cmgchica717 My sister and her stupid worthless boyfriend are t... Jan 24 2005, 01:57 PM 177emories hey they like it like that then leave it! and ... Jan 24 2005, 02:50 PM xd0rkette You should talk to them but you really shouldn... Jan 24 2005, 04:07 PM sammehmyst There is no such thing as teen love. Jan 24 2005, 04:27 PM Frankie if they are miserable, they should break up no mat... Jan 24 2005, 07:08 PM pinayprincess ahhh im going through the same thing [as ur two fr... Jan 24 2005, 07:43 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE infatuation. i think you should leave them alone ... Jan 24 2005, 08:33 PM xtreme_<3 i think you should let them deal with it. althoug... Jan 24 2005, 10:29 PM istolearock talk to them about it but do not act like you are ... Jan 25 2005, 12:39 AM Shattered_Hope infatuation. next time they come to vent to you..... Jan 26 2005, 05:08 PM ZiggY tell them to talk to each otha not uu Jan 26 2005, 07:17 PM Mireh theyre prob just trying to act hard to get towards... Jan 26 2005, 07:59 PM pikimoo [+] A little bit of anger strengthens a relationsh... Jan 26 2005, 08:00 PM Priscilla Sounds a lot like infatuation to me, but who can b... Jan 26 2005, 08:07 PM
EyeOfTheTiger5 They're going through problems, every relation... Jan 26 2005, 10:16 PM |
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