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my boyfriend fergets im there
ilauqh
post Jan 23 2005, 11:58 PM
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okay my boyfriend & i have been going out for almost 4 months now. i love him he loves me, everythings okay. but... we are walking together and then he stops and says hi to this girl he is friends with, i dont like her much but dats not the point. for the 4 secs he goes and says hi to her it feels like i dont even exist. he acts like im not even there. shud i tell him? iono what to do.

edyt// ur all making me sound so bad and jealous while im really not. i didnt say anything to him... i let him have his space. he talks to pleny of ppl i dont care, its jus the way he talks to this girl and seriously starts like looking at her in a way... iono ferget it.
 
 
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cewinee
post Jan 25 2005, 09:40 AM
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ummm haha okay some ppl are being alittle too harsh in their opinions lol so keep it cool ppl! sad.gif haha =)
but u get wat they mean right? when they say "OMG UR SUCH A DEMANDING BITCH" hahaha.. they jus dunno how to say it nicely i dunno haha..
but yeah.. it does SOUND like ur *controlling* or watever lol but obviously you're not.. you're jus a normal girlfriend jealous about ur boyfriend talking to another girl (you don't even like) in a different way..
i guess my opinion would be that.. ok it's tricky.. either that.
1. the girl you don't like is the ONE you don't trust so it's making U super paranoid about ur bf thinking HE's the one flirting or however u think of it..
2. ur bf really is being obvious when he's talking to girl.. obvious enough that ppl would think of it as he's really jus flirting with the chick..
3... WELL u get wat im getting at! =)
ur either just real paranoid (which is freakin normal!) or.. He's jus really flirting with the chick.. or or! the GIRL could be the one jus MAKING it look bad to you..

WOW CEWINEE'S GOT ALOTA THEORIES hAHahh jus wanna help in detail cry.gif

either way.. you gotta talk to him about it =) IF he's all like "no no we're jus friends. of course i love you. bla bla bla" then check the nxt time u guys see the girl n how he's talking to her.. i mean dont expect him to IGNORE her or anything! k! =) jus see if he's talking to her differently letting u know that nth's going on between them. k? =) gluck =)
 

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ilauqh   my boyfriend fergets im there   Jan 23 2005, 11:58 PM
Funky Buddha   Shouldn't this be in relationships You shoul...   Jan 24 2005, 12:01 AM
toodlepops.   tell him. a relationship needs a lotta communicati...   Jan 24 2005, 12:01 AM
tungtwista   guys should ALWAYS be closer and holding and all o...   Jan 24 2005, 12:03 AM
xSWEETxCANDiix   Hmm...you should talk to him about it that doesn...   Jan 24 2005, 12:26 AM
xXirockhardXx   Yeah you should really talk to him just so you won...   Jan 24 2005, 12:45 AM
RandomHero   You should tell him how you feel when he does that...   Jan 24 2005, 02:07 AM
Cake.   It's FOUR seconds. You're saying like he t...   Jan 24 2005, 03:45 PM
xd0rkette   QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Jan 24 2005, 4:45 PM)It...   Jan 24 2005, 04:04 PM
mouse_3k   he has a life too...let him live it. if he wants t...   Jan 24 2005, 03:49 PM
sammehmyst   In my opinion, it seems like you're a little t...   Jan 24 2005, 04:23 PM
_sarcastic_   well you should talk to him, and yeah like the abo...   Jan 24 2005, 04:29 PM
silver rain   yeah, i agree- talk to him. hah, sometimes i get l...   Jan 24 2005, 04:57 PM
Frankie   well, if he is saying hi to someone, do you want h...   Jan 24 2005, 07:06 PM
xj_liana_tx   i know people like that.. whatever, don't worr...   Jan 24 2005, 07:36 PM
pinayprincess   yeh! man if you have a problem with your man, ...   Jan 24 2005, 07:45 PM
dahding   if he ever breaks up with u, god, ur going to be a...   Jan 24 2005, 07:53 PM
sweetdreamsx3   Give him some freedom or get dumped.   Jan 24 2005, 08:35 PM
LEDO_D0RKETTE   QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Jan 24 2005, 8:35 PM)Gi...   Jan 24 2005, 08:39 PM
istolearock   QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jan 24 2005, 6:39 PM) ...   Jan 25 2005, 01:08 AM
carmen77198   just ask him about it... its good to talk   Jan 24 2005, 08:37 PM
istolearock   um.. it's 4 seconds... i guess if it really ma...   Jan 25 2005, 01:06 AM
bad_girl   talk to him. i would be jealous too.. lol.   Jan 25 2005, 05:01 AM
mistaken_identity   I say don't forget it's a relationship, so...   Jan 25 2005, 09:38 AM
stephinika   no you don't sound too bad. you're just on...   Jan 25 2005, 09:38 AM
cewinee   ummm haha okay some ppl are being alittle too hars...   Jan 25 2005, 09:40 AM
Shortiiex   um....if he does it again...just leave and see if ...   Jan 25 2005, 06:37 PM
CrazieFreshie   Wow, this sounds like I could've written it. ...   Jan 26 2005, 03:39 PM


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