Make your assumptions carefully Options

[xj_liana_tx]

in girl's locker, i saw this post about wannabes, and the member is talking about how certain people try to dress like her and everything and then she just calls her a wannabe.

Now, i bought this shirt and i wore it to school and this other girl got pissed because she thinks i copied off her, what the heck?? Maybe i just happened to like it too and there are accidents like that since stores obviously make replicas of shirts so they can do BUSINESS. Also, i almost bought this other hoodie and then the week after i saw the same girl wearing it, if i actually bought it and wore it to school, she would've told everyone what a wannabe i am, and that's really not fair, and don't tell me that "life isn't fair" or all these cliches.

my point is that you can't just accuse of somebody of being a wannabe like that, just because they dress like you occasionally doesn't mean that they are doing it on purpose. When most people make assumptions about someone like that, they become hostile toward them and that's one cause for gossips/rumors, you can imagine how some people feel when they are called wannabes especially when they didn't even know what they did wrong.

So, just make your assumptions carefully.

[angel-roh]

Heh there are few people who are like that in my school especially the korean peoples ehhh... good thing i'm not like that. if they wear the same clothes as me, i dont get so suspicious on them. i just be like "oh cute nice clothes!" hehh and they notice that they have same clothes as me and just laugh it off. i dont mind as long as she doesn't copy me EVERY single day... lol.....


anyways... in my freshman year... I had Health class with this girl name Susan. who had a same name as me. And my health teacher called... well lets clear this out, susan is american...so i'll say american susan so it wont confuse you. anyways american susan got called during the attendance... and now it was my turn. she asked me "how do you say your name right? is it sun min? or sung min?" i told her it's "sung min, but you can call me Susan." and american susan thought i copied her name... and it was on rumors that i copied her name...wtf?! i mean i had name myself susan since 7th grade...gosh... I had to look at american susan's face cause it was like she was staring at me right after i told my teacher to call me susan. so she was looking at me like im a b*tch...

and she told her boyfriend and her boyfriend told her friends... i was like wtf?!.... so yeah but when i turned sophomore and my 2nd semester...she ignored me. which is a good thing cause i hated to see her looking at me like im a bad girl...gez.

i named myself susan because it meant "lily" and i love lilies...so i named myself susan... gosh that american susan...aiish.