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mature love or infatuation?
lilmizannie
post Jan 24 2005, 02:18 AM
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okay, this has been bugging me lately. I have these 2 friends who are coupled. but all they do is fight. most of the time about the most insignificant things. they get like..jealous of each other when we hang out...which means theres like...no trust. and the whole thing all together jus drains them of energy. and they dont even talk to each other about their problems that they have with each other!! how is a relationship supposed to work if theres not even that communication?? all they do is just like...set it aside and act as if it didnt happen. it tears me apart seeing them like this, but they claim to love each other.

i dunno, i've been kinda indifferent about this whole relationship stuff, esp in high school cuz u dont kno about the colleges and its jus blah..anyway thats besides the point

my point is, i just dont kno wat to do/say to them anymore when they come to vent to me. from the way i see it tho, it seems to me like their love is more along the lines of infatuation or immature love. like...i kno i shouldnt be butting into their business cuz...hey, its their relationship right? who am i to judge. but still....its jus..aggravating to see 2 of my best friends so miserable cry.gif
 
 
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KissMe2408
post Jan 24 2005, 01:18 PM
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hmm..well all relationships have fights in them or disagreements. But tell them to stop venting at you and talk about it to each other. I'm sure they care about each other. I'm not sure if it's love or infatuation because i don't know them, lol, but just tell them to talk about it with each other, and tell them ur worries for their relationship. If they are your best friends then you should def tell them then!
 

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lilmizannie   mature love or infatuation?   Jan 24 2005, 02:18 AM
_sarcastic_   talk to them about it, help them out , just don...   Jan 24 2005, 05:54 AM
yanners   infatuation. leave them alone..they should sort o...   Jan 24 2005, 07:09 AM
KissMe2408   hmm..well all relationships have fights in them or...   Jan 24 2005, 01:18 PM
cmgchica717   My sister and her stupid worthless boyfriend are t...   Jan 24 2005, 01:57 PM
177emories   hey they like it like that then leave it! and ...   Jan 24 2005, 02:50 PM
xd0rkette   You should talk to them but you really shouldn...   Jan 24 2005, 04:07 PM
sammehmyst   There is no such thing as teen love.   Jan 24 2005, 04:27 PM
Frankie   if they are miserable, they should break up no mat...   Jan 24 2005, 07:08 PM
pinayprincess   ahhh im going through the same thing [as ur two fr...   Jan 24 2005, 07:43 PM
LEDO_D0RKETTE   infatuation. i think you should leave them alone ...   Jan 24 2005, 08:33 PM
xtreme_<3   i think you should let them deal with it. althoug...   Jan 24 2005, 10:29 PM
istolearock   talk to them about it but do not act like you are ...   Jan 25 2005, 12:39 AM
Shattered_Hope   infatuation. next time they come to vent to you.....   Jan 26 2005, 05:08 PM
ZiggY   tell them to talk to each otha not uu   Jan 26 2005, 07:17 PM
pikimoo   Just because they fight doesn't mean they don...   Jan 26 2005, 07:28 PM
Mireh   theyre prob just trying to act hard to get towards...   Jan 26 2005, 07:59 PM
pikimoo   [+] A little bit of anger strengthens a relationsh...   Jan 26 2005, 08:00 PM
Priscilla   Sounds a lot like infatuation to me, but who can b...   Jan 26 2005, 08:07 PM
EyeOfTheTiger5   They're going through problems, every relation...   Jan 26 2005, 10:16 PM


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