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[Oreo_bro]

Okay i planned to do this before i left cb a while ago, but i didnt get around to it. What im needing is some imput from all of you for some questions i will ask.

Why? Becuase im wanting to make a lengthy topic so people will love me! No not really, i mean you already love me right? Ha, anyways its really going to be a lengthy topic giving answers to a lot of common questions asked in this forum. Im not saying its bad that people ask them, but after awhile all of the "what do i do" and "i like this babe but.." just..gets boring! Know what i mean? So im wanting to create a topic that has answers to common questions asked here to possibly help people out in the future so they may not have to make those common topics and free up forum space!

Anyways what i'm wanting is that you copy paste the following questions and answer each of them as if you were giving advice or you're imput. Okay? It would be cool if the mods helped too, but im wanting everyone to do it, everyone who can. Even if you dont feel your advice is good, give it anyways im wanting to know what CB as a whole says to each question and then i'll put that question and answer *i'll combine the answers* so that people in the future will know what cb says!

Take as much space as you need to answer the questions, and if you dont feel like answering one then go ahead and skip it.

Okay so here are the questions"

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?


2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.


4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?


5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?


10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?

Okay peeps. Those are the questions. Now im not going to use the exact formate of each question in the final product, but i will use your answers to make a decent document thingy. If you all could please copy paste the questions then answer them as best you can that would be a big help. If you cant answer a question just put a dash in it. Im wanting to get a feel for what a lot of people here feels, so answer as you want!



Thanks again people! And may the force be with you.

[Wishful Thinking]

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?
Just suddenly say this randomly when you are sure she's listening and no one but you and her are around. "What would you do if I were to ask you out?" If she says she would say yes then that shows that she likes you back. If she says no then go, "I was just kidding." or something.

2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?
Don't wait for anything. Don't go up to him either. Maybe he just wants to be friends with you. I don't know. Get to know him more. Become his friend. Maybe you guys are better off as friends.

3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.
Smoking is wrong. Drugs is worst. Tell him you don't like it. If he doesn't respect you, break up. I'm sorry but seems to me like he only cares about being cool. Sounds like a jerk to me.

4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?
If you don't like her, don't lead her on. Tell her, "I just want to be friends." At least you'd have another friend, right?

5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?
She sounds like a burden to you. But like I said before. Don't lead people on. If you lost all the feelings, why keep going? I think you should break up with her.

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..
Get out of this relationship immediately. Seems to me like he loves you, but he doesn't care about your physical being or health. So he's hurting you. He may love you, but he's not the right one for you. You deserve better. Someone that wouldn't hurt you. Would you rather give him a little pain by breaking up now, or get hurt a million times worst later?

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.
Life gets better. Trust me. It does. If your parents are yelling at you, ask them why they are. Or go live with a friend for a day or two. Calm down and relax. Girls come and go. There's over a million girls out there waiting to meet you. If your failing school, start straightening up and studying. School is more important than relationships. School is about your FUTURE. Your car got towed away? Well, seems to me like you did something wrong. Cars aren't THAT important. Sure, it's easier to travel by car. Try saving the air and trees by walking. Don't cut yourself. It's wrong. It makes it worst. It doesn't help. Just go swimming or take a hot bath to relax yourself. Things will get better.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?
Well, first of all, you should stop trying to find someone. Stop asking people out. Just because you like them, doesn't mean they have to like you back. Maybe they just aren't the one for you. I know there is someone for you in the near future. Wait awhile, concentrate on your schoolwork or the things that are currently important. The one may pop up unexpectedly. "Somebody out there is waiting for you..."

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?
Your girlfriend has an anger problem. She's one of those people that always wants to be right. My mom is like that. I accepted her and got used to it. If you truly love your girlfriend, you would accept her for how she is. If you don't, break up.

10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?
I suppose "hs" stands for high school right? Nope, it's not a bad thing. It's easier to concentrate in school without a boyfriend/girlfriend. Have fun with your friends, hang out and study. You don't need a guy or girl to be happy.