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[Oreo_bro]

Okay i planned to do this before i left cb a while ago, but i didnt get around to it. What im needing is some imput from all of you for some questions i will ask.

Why? Becuase im wanting to make a lengthy topic so people will love me! No not really, i mean you already love me right? Ha, anyways its really going to be a lengthy topic giving answers to a lot of common questions asked in this forum. Im not saying its bad that people ask them, but after awhile all of the "what do i do" and "i like this babe but.." just..gets boring! Know what i mean? So im wanting to create a topic that has answers to common questions asked here to possibly help people out in the future so they may not have to make those common topics and free up forum space!

Anyways what i'm wanting is that you copy paste the following questions and answer each of them as if you were giving advice or you're imput. Okay? It would be cool if the mods helped too, but im wanting everyone to do it, everyone who can. Even if you dont feel your advice is good, give it anyways im wanting to know what CB as a whole says to each question and then i'll put that question and answer *i'll combine the answers* so that people in the future will know what cb says!

Take as much space as you need to answer the questions, and if you dont feel like answering one then go ahead and skip it.

Okay so here are the questions"

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?


2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.


4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?


5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?


10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?

Okay peeps. Those are the questions. Now im not going to use the exact formate of each question in the final product, but i will use your answers to make a decent document thingy. If you all could please copy paste the questions then answer them as best you can that would be a big help. If you cant answer a question just put a dash in it. Im wanting to get a feel for what a lot of people here feels, so answer as you want!



Thanks again people! And may the force be with you.

[silver-rain]

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?
I think you should get to know her better- and drop subtle hints that you like her. if you think she also might have the same feelings, tell her and ask her out

2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?
hah, that was the same with me last year. well, i suggest, you get to know him better, flirt with him a bit, see how he feels about you. wait a while.

3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.
if you love him, and care about him, you should tell him how you feel. and if he loves you too, he should listen to you and stop, or your relationship is over.

4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?
just tell her that you're not interested-that she's really sweet, but you would rather beher friend.

5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?
you shouldn't lead her on. i've been in your situation, where i was the girl and my bf didn't have anymore feelings for me, but he kept the relationship going for a while. and when he broke up with me out of nowhere, it hurt. it is better to just tell her now and not lead her on- cause that'll hurt even more.

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..
if it's a loving relationship, he shouldn't be hurting you. i think you should first tell him, but if he doesn't do anything, leave him.

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.
ok, first of all, stop cutting. i know it's really bad now, but if you wait a while, things'll pick up. i sorta know what you're going through, and suicide is not the answer. since you don't have a girlfriend anymore, concentrate on your studies, and try to bring your grades up. if your parents see that your grades are getting better, they'll stop yelling. get a job to get your car back. try to make your life better.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?
just wait. i think that there's someone out there for everyone- but you just have to be patient. keep trying, and don't get someone just to "fit in" with time, that someone will find you.

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?
hmm, say you're sorry, and talk to her about it. try to see what she thinks you're doing wrong.

10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?
no, there's nothing wrong with being single in hs. you can concentrate on your schoolwork, and get involved with extracurriculars. besides, you'll probably find someone in college, just be patient.