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[Oreo_bro]

Okay i planned to do this before i left cb a while ago, but i didnt get around to it. What im needing is some imput from all of you for some questions i will ask.

Why? Becuase im wanting to make a lengthy topic so people will love me! No not really, i mean you already love me right? Ha, anyways its really going to be a lengthy topic giving answers to a lot of common questions asked in this forum. Im not saying its bad that people ask them, but after awhile all of the "what do i do" and "i like this babe but.." just..gets boring! Know what i mean? So im wanting to create a topic that has answers to common questions asked here to possibly help people out in the future so they may not have to make those common topics and free up forum space!

Anyways what i'm wanting is that you copy paste the following questions and answer each of them as if you were giving advice or you're imput. Okay? It would be cool if the mods helped too, but im wanting everyone to do it, everyone who can. Even if you dont feel your advice is good, give it anyways im wanting to know what CB as a whole says to each question and then i'll put that question and answer *i'll combine the answers* so that people in the future will know what cb says!

Take as much space as you need to answer the questions, and if you dont feel like answering one then go ahead and skip it.

Okay so here are the questions"

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?


2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.


4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?


5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?


10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?

Okay peeps. Those are the questions. Now im not going to use the exact formate of each question in the final product, but i will use your answers to make a decent document thingy. If you all could please copy paste the questions then answer them as best you can that would be a big help. If you cant answer a question just put a dash in it. Im wanting to get a feel for what a lot of people here feels, so answer as you want!



Thanks again people! And may the force be with you.

[KissMe2408]

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do? Everyone usually starts off as friends, I say go for it. Ask her how she feels about you, as a boyfriend. If she says she likes you, then yipee go you. If she just wants to be friends, then you guys stay friends. Atleast you won't think to yourself, "i wish i told her that i like her".


2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait? I think you should get to know this guy a little better before you start asking this question. Try talking to him more outside of class. Him smiling at you in the hallway is nice, try talking in the hallway. Get to know him alot better, and if you guys start to like each other then great


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.
He won't hate you because you ask him to stop. just tell him that you care about him too much to see him go through this. If he can't understand that or doesn't want to stop then maybe you should question whether you want to be with this kind of guy. But give him a chance first, talk to him about it more. Don't just drop the topic. Talk to him more, and tell him how you feel about it.

4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do? If you don't like her, then i suggest you not go out with her. She of course will probably be hurt that you say no, but it would hurt her even more if you went out with her when you didn't like her, and dumped her later. Just tell her that you would love to be friends and that your not really ready for a relationship with her. end of story.


5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do? You shouldn't just drag it on if you don't feel anything for her, it's not fair to this girl. But talk to her about it..you really just need to talk to her.


6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving.. Leave him. If he is abusing you, then you need to get out, because it gets worse. Don't worry about hurting his feelings, you just need to get outta that relationship.


7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help. You should not cut yourself, it doesn't make you feel better in the end. And committing suicide doesn't fix anything either...If you hate your life, then try to make it better....start studying at school, don't slack off. try to make ur life better...and learn to be happy with yourself

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do? Yes, there is someone out there for you. There is someone out there for everyone, stop looking, because usually you find that special someone when you least expect it. Being lonely happens to alot of people, but just know that someone is out there waiting for you

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what? You've got to talk it over with this girl, see from her point of view...what exactly did you do? It matters on the situation, if you actually did do somethan, then yeah you better apologize. but if you truly didn't do anything, then you might consider breaking it off with this girl


10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing? Not at all. I think people start dating way too young. You just end up getting hurt. Honestly, i wish that i didn't start dating until college atleast. And being single can be very nice and you can keep you focused on the more important things in life.