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[Oreo_bro]

Okay i planned to do this before i left cb a while ago, but i didnt get around to it. What im needing is some imput from all of you for some questions i will ask.

Why? Becuase im wanting to make a lengthy topic so people will love me! No not really, i mean you already love me right? Ha, anyways its really going to be a lengthy topic giving answers to a lot of common questions asked in this forum. Im not saying its bad that people ask them, but after awhile all of the "what do i do" and "i like this babe but.." just..gets boring! Know what i mean? So im wanting to create a topic that has answers to common questions asked here to possibly help people out in the future so they may not have to make those common topics and free up forum space!

Anyways what i'm wanting is that you copy paste the following questions and answer each of them as if you were giving advice or you're imput. Okay? It would be cool if the mods helped too, but im wanting everyone to do it, everyone who can. Even if you dont feel your advice is good, give it anyways im wanting to know what CB as a whole says to each question and then i'll put that question and answer *i'll combine the answers* so that people in the future will know what cb says!

Take as much space as you need to answer the questions, and if you dont feel like answering one then go ahead and skip it.

Okay so here are the questions"

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?


2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.


4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?


5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?


10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?

Okay peeps. Those are the questions. Now im not going to use the exact formate of each question in the final product, but i will use your answers to make a decent document thingy. If you all could please copy paste the questions then answer them as best you can that would be a big help. If you cant answer a question just put a dash in it. Im wanting to get a feel for what a lot of people here feels, so answer as you want!



Thanks again people! And may the force be with you.

[to-devastate]

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?
Go ask her out. If you like her for a long time and you guys are friends; just take a chance and go for it. Hey. Maybe she likes you too. =]


2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?
Wait a little longer. If he's definetly dropping you signs, I say, go for it. He could just be flirting; everyone flirts, or he could just be a nice guy.


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.
Bug him to stop. lols. If he hates you just because you're asking him to stop smoking- because you care- then dump him. If he doesn't see through that you're only trying to help him because you care about him, then he's not worth it.


4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?
Tell her No. But let her down softly. A girl could think of a guy as a jerk just because he rejecter her. So tell her that you're not ready for a relationship right now or something. And don't go out with her. A relationship isn't good if it's based on a lie.


5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?
I think you should break up with her. A relationship should not be lied to; it should be truth. Tell your girlfriend that you just don't really feel any sparks between you guys anymore. Sure, she'll get mad at you, but atleast you feel better knowing that you did the right thing- before it got too serious.

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..
LEAVE HIM. Dating is all about loving and hurting. If he hits you; get out- fast. He needs help. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't give him the right to hurt you physically. If the devil said he loved you, would you go out with him? .. If you love him, then that's a different story.

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.
So what? Life is a gift. Use it. So your girlfriend left you, no big deal. There will be others. Every parent yells at you; it's because they care. Get your grades up. Get a tutor or something or go ask help from a teacher.. it's not that hard. If your car got towed... get it back? And if you can't find the money- get a part-time job or something. Just use common sense.
And no. Cutting does not work. It doesn't take away the pain. It hurts you even more. You will feel better when you feel like you achieved something. Go out there and say, "I will be a better person because I know I can do it. If I fail today, I will suceed tomorrow; Tomorrow will be a brighter day."

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?
Be patient. That's what you should do.

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?
Whoever's fault it was; you're worried that your girl will dump you. Talk to her about it. If she still thinks it's her fault- and if you really like her and don't wanna lose her, tell her you're sorry because she's being immature about a little thing. But if you know that it's not your fault- and you could live without her; don't say sorry for something you're not sorry for.


10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?
No. Being single whenever isn't a bad thing. It really depends on your perspective.



WHOO. That took like 30 minutes to answer. Haha. =]