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[Oreo_bro]

Okay i planned to do this before i left cb a while ago, but i didnt get around to it. What im needing is some imput from all of you for some questions i will ask.

Why? Becuase im wanting to make a lengthy topic so people will love me! No not really, i mean you already love me right? Ha, anyways its really going to be a lengthy topic giving answers to a lot of common questions asked in this forum. Im not saying its bad that people ask them, but after awhile all of the "what do i do" and "i like this babe but.." just..gets boring! Know what i mean? So im wanting to create a topic that has answers to common questions asked here to possibly help people out in the future so they may not have to make those common topics and free up forum space!

Anyways what i'm wanting is that you copy paste the following questions and answer each of them as if you were giving advice or you're imput. Okay? It would be cool if the mods helped too, but im wanting everyone to do it, everyone who can. Even if you dont feel your advice is good, give it anyways im wanting to know what CB as a whole says to each question and then i'll put that question and answer *i'll combine the answers* so that people in the future will know what cb says!

Take as much space as you need to answer the questions, and if you dont feel like answering one then go ahead and skip it.

Okay so here are the questions"

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?


2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.


4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?


5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?


10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?

Okay peeps. Those are the questions. Now im not going to use the exact formate of each question in the final product, but i will use your answers to make a decent document thingy. If you all could please copy paste the questions then answer them as best you can that would be a big help. If you cant answer a question just put a dash in it. Im wanting to get a feel for what a lot of people here feels, so answer as you want!



Thanks again people! And may the force be with you.

[teeners4]

how random but i'll fill it out

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?

well i like boys... but anywho... im a girl! so i can help you. casual flirting! if you know what that means. like you know how friends can sometimes tease each other? kinda like that. and also my school we do a lot of hugs. hehe so if your group of friends is like that. then hug her too. makes her feel special. like i have a guy friend. he just walks up from behind in the hallways and either hugs me or puts his arm around me and askes how im doing. sure we dont like each other, but it makes me more happy if im ever feeling down.

2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?

HEY! thats like ME! hehe. well actually i just think he's cute. but i dont like him. and i think we're more friends and smilng is just out of friendship. i mean he has a gf damn her. haha jkjk. she's a nice person. i think you should just TALK to him at least. and see what goes on from there. maybe once you get to know him more. you'll like him more as a friend than a crush.


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.

you love him right? does he love you? i mean he says it's cool and all. but just say to him. "if you like me/love me (Depending on your relationship) then would you please stop smoking? im really worried about you this isnt good for you" or something along those lines. if he doesnt stop. he isnt worth it.

4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?

just tell her straight up. well maybe not that straight up. go "you're a nice person and i think you're very sweet, but i dont see you in that way. if you wanna, we can still hang out as friends" and YEA you will probably hurt her feelings either way, but she's gotta deal with it. and yea... might as well tell her as soon as possible than drag it out

5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?

worst thing to do in a relationship: dragging things out. i mean yes you'll probably hurt her feelings. but i mean. the longer you drag it the more she'll love you so might as well cut it off as soon as possible. dont wait for her to dump you. i mean what's the point of love if it's only one-way? tell her straight up. you lost the spark.

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..

tell him that if he claims he loves you he will stop abusing you. maybe from his perspective he doesnt see how he's abusing you. but tell him some examples of what happened that was abusive according to you. and you dont wana hurt him rite? but he's already hurt you if he's being abusive. another choice is to weigh out the pros and cons. is he really worth it for some battle scars?


7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.

NO.! suicide is not the answer. k if you think your life is over... i mean work out slowly. take baby steps. yes. sometimes life seems to go downhill all at once. and downs come faster than the ups. that's how life works. and for it to go up. you cant wait for it to come. you hafta do it yourself. your girlfriend left you right? there's plenty more fish out in the sea. yes i know that's cliche but it's true. maybe you're not ready to go back into the field thats okay. hang out with the guys. watch the big game. and just chill. your parents yelled at you? well just like talk to them. sure they might get more mad. but they should listen. i cant really help you here, because i've never had a bad relationship with my parents. but i mainly suggest try talking. and if your failing school, get a friend or a inschool tutor. they really help! well your car got towed? depends why it was. cant u pay the find? it'll probably only be like $75. and cutting is disgusting. do you REALLY wanna cut yourself? you WILL feel betta it just wont come all at once. join clubs, youth clubs, anything! meet new people! it'll help. i promise


8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?

hey. maybe it isnt your time. not everyone HAS to date when they're 14 you know? when it's their time it's their time. i mean do you really want to keep dating the wrong people for you or do you want to wait a little longer for the right person?

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?

just tell her WHAT and WHY was it your fault. i mean if she doesnt tell you she's just being childish you know? and if she doesnt listen. then its her problem. i mean she doesnt have to blackmail you into saying "sorry" for something that you DIDNT know WHY its your fault.

10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?

no. well depends i guess. some people HATE being single...some people HATE being in a relationship. it also depends on your previous relationship. and the people around you. i mean if all your friends have bfs and gfs then of course you do right? well...i dont think it's a bad thing. i mean endless flirting with an endless number of people. and you can date just for the hell of it. play the field. it helps you get to know the game a little bit better

hehe well im done