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Will you go out with me?, please?
Oreo_bro
post Jan 20 2005, 06:21 AM
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Why is it that its so hard for us guys to ask such a question?

Take me for example, i have a few girls i like at school, and they are both really really good friends of mine. One of them is dating someone but i've mentioed it casualy t her if she would go out with me if she wasnt dating her current bf. She said yes *curses*. The other girl is single and we are good friends and all but i cant pop the question! I can get close but i always back out. What is it with guys and asking girls? What is it with girls and not asking the guys.

Here is my question to everyone, but i really want ot see a girls opinion on this

Why does it tend to be easier to ask some one you just me/known for a short time out *say a friend of a friends friend* but its almost impossible for you to ask out a very very good friend of yours htat you have known for awhile?
 
 
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Xprezsion
post Jan 21 2005, 06:15 PM
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I agree with the other girls, If u ask someone you don't really know and they say no, it's ok cause you don't have to talk to them again, but if it's a really good friend of yours that says no, you don't want to jeopordize the friendship.
 

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Oreo_bro   Will you go out with me?   Jan 20 2005, 06:21 AM
Funky Buddha   Not a girl but Your really good friends... maybe...   Jan 20 2005, 06:28 AM
Oreo_bro   yeah im afraid i guess, dont know why but i am   Jan 20 2005, 06:32 AM
yanners   i dont know. i've asked a guy out who i'm...   Jan 20 2005, 06:33 AM
shoester   well, the only answer i can think of to that is......   Jan 20 2005, 06:42 AM
bad_girl   dude, thanks for the comment just now. i made a ne...   Jan 20 2005, 06:51 AM
stephinika   because of the fear of rejection and things becomi...   Jan 20 2005, 06:59 PM
MyVermilionPlague   Rofl. I was about to say "Sorry, this isn...   Jan 20 2005, 07:01 PM
LEDO_D0RKETTE   For me, i'm nervous to ask a guy out so, i wai...   Jan 20 2005, 07:02 PM
Mini   QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jan 20 2005, 7:02 PM)Bu...   Jan 20 2005, 07:04 PM
Nugget   QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jan 20 2005, 7:02 PM)Fo...   Jan 20 2005, 09:02 PM
xj_liana_tx   girls are more sensitive, there is a day where gir...   Jan 20 2005, 07:13 PM
Shattered_Hope   err...well..I've never been in this situation....   Jan 20 2005, 07:19 PM
blowpops69   i agree with shoester. smart kid.   Jan 20 2005, 07:22 PM
sweetdreamsx3   You're afraid of rejection because she's a...   Jan 20 2005, 07:55 PM
dOyOOHtHINK   i guess guys just get too stressed and back out be...   Jan 20 2005, 08:14 PM
sammehmyst   being turned down for a girl seems to be a very dr...   Jan 20 2005, 08:43 PM
you suck   if im friends with the guy and hes flirting, then ...   Jan 20 2005, 08:46 PM
FLIPxADDICTION   QUOTE(Oreo_bro @ Jan 20 2005, 6:21 AM)Why doe...   Jan 20 2005, 08:57 PM
sunissed14127   With me, I usually never like my close guy friends...   Jan 20 2005, 09:16 PM
ih8coffee   Hmm.. interesting topic. I think I should ask guys...   Jan 21 2005, 03:56 AM
M1SSxCHR1SSY   i think it's harder to ask out someone who you...   Jan 21 2005, 04:39 AM
wind&fire   attack the problem as if you have to go into a col...   Jan 21 2005, 09:42 AM
angel-roh   1 -- It's probably because you're afraid t...   Jan 21 2005, 01:28 PM
maia_dc   Fear of rejection. ...just wondering, but why do y...   Jan 21 2005, 04:33 PM
Xprezsion   I agree with the other girls, If u ask someone you...   Jan 21 2005, 06:15 PM
Oreo_bro   Okay! Sorry guys but i was just testing you a...   Jan 21 2005, 07:09 PM


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