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 Jan 20 2005, 07:47 PM
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 none of it seems real  Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889  |
Well there is a guy in my class who has been saying how he feels about me outloud..
examples - - I have a crush on Lilly, shes so cute - Lilly and I are going to get married - I'm only in this class because Lilly is in here - Lilly you're my favorite It makes me feel uncomfortable in a way.. because I've always known this guy as a friend/acquaintance and I don't think I could see him as more. I saw him so many times today and he called my friend over in his loud voice and then when he noticed I was there his whole voice changed and he says "heyyyy Lilly" all nice and loving. LOL In my head I'm just like what the eff. Today I didn't talk to him as much so that way he could get the hint that I wasn't really diggin' that .. but he ended up giving me a massage ( he sits behind me ) so I guess not talking to him didn't really give him the hint that I'm not into him like that. What should I do about this ? What would you do ? His a really nice guy.. I don't want to hurt him. I don't think he will ask me out.. but I don't really know with this guy, his unpredictable. |
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Jan 21 2005, 01:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,584 |
(im such a genious, and im sorry if the advice im about to give has been said before, this just came to me)
tell him that youre afraid that if you and him do start dating/get serious/whatever, that theres a greater chance that your presently wonderful relationship could be ruined. tell him that its better not to mess with a good thing, and that you dont want to risk it. THIS IS GOOD because it gives him the impression that (whether its there or not) you DO care about the friendship between him and yourself. FURTHER this would create the impression that you care about him. which will make him happy... i think... unless he detects an air of insincerity. hell be all over your case then for sure. |
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Skyline Drive -_- hmm.. Jan 20 2005, 07:47 PM
sweetdreamsx3 Hey [insert name here], I think you're really ... Jan 20 2005, 07:51 PM xj_liana_tx reminds me of the movie "not another teen mov... Jan 20 2005, 07:56 PM stephinika just tell him how you feel and that you're not... Jan 20 2005, 08:09 PM electric shock Tell him to stop. But, in a nicer, kinder, calmer ... Jan 20 2005, 08:25 PM Podomaht " Quit being such a d**k! " Jan 20 2005, 08:26 PM gponce10104 tell him how you feel... how you dont feel the sam... Jan 20 2005, 08:46 PM royalfreshness Be like: Hey SO-N-SO, I cool with you and all... ... Jan 20 2005, 08:47 PM silver rain just tell him how you feel. hah, that was how my e... Jan 20 2005, 09:12 PM Shattered_Hope You: Hey, I'm sry, but I don't want to rui... Jan 20 2005, 09:21 PM _sarcastic_ ^ that's a good way.
or just tell him how you ... Jan 21 2005, 06:16 AM cewinee when someones bothers you or makes you uncomfortab... Jan 21 2005, 07:25 AM lulu424 RE: -_- hmm.. Jan 21 2005, 11:16 AM
Solipsist QUOTE(lulu424 @ Jan 21 2005, 8:16 AM)
... Jan 21 2005, 12:03 PM mouse_3k hmm you can tell him to leave you alone or you gon... Jan 21 2005, 03:07 PM lidoaznboi89 yea tell him to leave you alone, kinda scary and w... Jan 27 2005, 12:42 AM |
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