Will you go out with me?, please? |
 Jan 20 2005, 06:21 AM
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Why is it that its so hard for us guys to ask such a question?
Take me for example, i have a few girls i like at school, and they are both really really good friends of mine. One of them is dating someone but i've mentioed it casualy t her if she would go out with me if she wasnt dating her current bf. She said yes *curses*. The other girl is single and we are good friends and all but i cant pop the question! I can get close but i always back out. What is it with guys and asking girls? What is it with girls and not asking the guys. Here is my question to everyone, but i really want ot see a girls opinion on this Why does it tend to be easier to ask some one you just me/known for a short time out *say a friend of a friends friend* but its almost impossible for you to ask out a very very good friend of yours htat you have known for awhile? |
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Jan 21 2005, 04:39 AM
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i think it's harder to ask out someone who you are really good friends with because there is always that risk that if the relationship for some reasons ends badly that the friendship will be ruined. also about rejection. if you don't date but you had asked your good friend it makes the friendship a little bit awkward whereas a friend of a friend it's not because you might never even talk to this person again. also about why do usually guys ask out the girls. well because that's the old fashioned way. like that's the way it's basically been going on forever. it seems more "manly" for a guy to step up and ask the girl. whereas if the girl does it, it seems improper. so that's why; people just basically stick with what works and what works is the guy asks the girl. but since times are changing now it's getting mroe acceptable for girls to ask out guys but because they haven't been doing this before, theres a greater fear of rejection. then again, these are all my opinions
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Oreo_bro Will you go out with me? Jan 20 2005, 06:21 AM
Funky Buddha Not a girl but
Your really good friends... maybe... Jan 20 2005, 06:28 AM Oreo_bro yeah im afraid i guess, dont know why but i am Jan 20 2005, 06:32 AM yanners i dont know. i've asked a guy out who i'm... Jan 20 2005, 06:33 AM shoester well, the only answer i can think of to that is...... Jan 20 2005, 06:42 AM bad_girl dude, thanks for the comment just now. i made a ne... Jan 20 2005, 06:51 AM stephinika because of the fear of rejection and things becomi... Jan 20 2005, 06:59 PM MyVermilionPlague Rofl. I was about to say "Sorry, this isn... Jan 20 2005, 07:01 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE For me, i'm nervous to ask a guy out so, i wai... Jan 20 2005, 07:02 PM
Mini QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jan 20 2005, 7:02 PM)Bu... Jan 20 2005, 07:04 PM
Nugget QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jan 20 2005, 7:02 PM)Fo... Jan 20 2005, 09:02 PM xj_liana_tx girls are more sensitive, there is a day where gir... Jan 20 2005, 07:13 PM Shattered_Hope err...well..I've never been in this situation.... Jan 20 2005, 07:19 PM blowpops69 i agree with shoester. smart kid. Jan 20 2005, 07:22 PM sweetdreamsx3 You're afraid of rejection because she's a... Jan 20 2005, 07:55 PM dOyOOHtHINK i guess guys just get too stressed and back out be... Jan 20 2005, 08:14 PM sammehmyst being turned down for a girl seems to be a very dr... Jan 20 2005, 08:43 PM you suck if im friends with the guy and hes flirting, then ... Jan 20 2005, 08:46 PM FLIPxADDICTION QUOTE(Oreo_bro @ Jan 20 2005, 6:21 AM)Why doe... Jan 20 2005, 08:57 PM sunissed14127 With me, I usually never like my close guy friends... Jan 20 2005, 09:16 PM ih8coffee Hmm.. interesting topic. I think I should ask guys... Jan 21 2005, 03:56 AM wind&fire attack the problem as if you have to go into a col... Jan 21 2005, 09:42 AM angel-roh 1 -- It's probably because you're afraid t... Jan 21 2005, 01:28 PM maia_dc Fear of rejection.
...just wondering, but why do y... Jan 21 2005, 04:33 PM Xprezsion I agree with the other girls, If u ask someone you... Jan 21 2005, 06:15 PM Oreo_bro Okay!
Sorry guys but i was just testing you a... Jan 21 2005, 07:09 PM |
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