Will you go out with me?, please? |
 Jan 20 2005, 06:21 AM
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Why is it that its so hard for us guys to ask such a question?
Take me for example, i have a few girls i like at school, and they are both really really good friends of mine. One of them is dating someone but i've mentioed it casualy t her if she would go out with me if she wasnt dating her current bf. She said yes *curses*. The other girl is single and we are good friends and all but i cant pop the question! I can get close but i always back out. What is it with guys and asking girls? What is it with girls and not asking the guys. Here is my question to everyone, but i really want ot see a girls opinion on this Why does it tend to be easier to ask some one you just me/known for a short time out *say a friend of a friends friend* but its almost impossible for you to ask out a very very good friend of yours htat you have known for awhile? |
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Jan 20 2005, 07:02 PM
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For me, i'm nervous to ask a guy out so, i wait 'til the guy askes me. But girls, don't want to ask the guys out because they'll be afraid of rejection or their just scarred.
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Jan 20 2005, 07:04 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jan 20 2005, 7:02 PM) But girls, don't want to ask the guys out because they'll be afraid of rejection or their just scarred.  Guys feel the same way. |
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Oreo_bro Will you go out with me? Jan 20 2005, 06:21 AM
Funky Buddha Not a girl but
Your really good friends... maybe... Jan 20 2005, 06:28 AM Oreo_bro yeah im afraid i guess, dont know why but i am Jan 20 2005, 06:32 AM yanners i dont know. i've asked a guy out who i'm... Jan 20 2005, 06:33 AM shoester well, the only answer i can think of to that is...... Jan 20 2005, 06:42 AM bad_girl dude, thanks for the comment just now. i made a ne... Jan 20 2005, 06:51 AM stephinika because of the fear of rejection and things becomi... Jan 20 2005, 06:59 PM MyVermilionPlague Rofl. I was about to say "Sorry, this isn... Jan 20 2005, 07:01 PM
Nugget QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jan 20 2005, 7:02 PM)Fo... Jan 20 2005, 09:02 PM xj_liana_tx girls are more sensitive, there is a day where gir... Jan 20 2005, 07:13 PM Shattered_Hope err...well..I've never been in this situation.... Jan 20 2005, 07:19 PM blowpops69 i agree with shoester. smart kid. Jan 20 2005, 07:22 PM sweetdreamsx3 You're afraid of rejection because she's a... Jan 20 2005, 07:55 PM dOyOOHtHINK i guess guys just get too stressed and back out be... Jan 20 2005, 08:14 PM sammehmyst being turned down for a girl seems to be a very dr... Jan 20 2005, 08:43 PM you suck if im friends with the guy and hes flirting, then ... Jan 20 2005, 08:46 PM FLIPxADDICTION QUOTE(Oreo_bro @ Jan 20 2005, 6:21 AM)Why doe... Jan 20 2005, 08:57 PM sunissed14127 With me, I usually never like my close guy friends... Jan 20 2005, 09:16 PM ih8coffee Hmm.. interesting topic. I think I should ask guys... Jan 21 2005, 03:56 AM M1SSxCHR1SSY i think it's harder to ask out someone who you... Jan 21 2005, 04:39 AM wind&fire attack the problem as if you have to go into a col... Jan 21 2005, 09:42 AM angel-roh 1 -- It's probably because you're afraid t... Jan 21 2005, 01:28 PM maia_dc Fear of rejection.
...just wondering, but why do y... Jan 21 2005, 04:33 PM Xprezsion I agree with the other girls, If u ask someone you... Jan 21 2005, 06:15 PM Oreo_bro Okay!
Sorry guys but i was just testing you a... Jan 21 2005, 07:09 PM |
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