bullies.., help. Options

[bad_girl]

long story.. but i need help.

ok.. so there's this girl. she used to be my bestfriend, until she accused me of stealing a song she had in her xanga. cos i, too, used the same song, and she said that i copied her. immature. but she hated me and such till now, she still does. and her hating me caused her friend (a girl in a grade higher) to hate me too. let's call her friend J. well J has hated me ever since and bullied me and such. so one day.. we were in the caf with my friends. she sat down next to a girl i didnt really talk to, *pointed at me* and said "is she ur friend?" that girl said "i dont know" and J said "well, good choice." that made me pissed at her and stuff.. but i pretended to ignore her. then another day.. a few days after i posted my new years resolutions on my xanga.. one that i made up *in the year 2005.. i hope to: have a sex change operation*. hey, it was a joke, it was supposed to be funny, right? well she didnt think it was a joke, and that day in the caf her *friends* brought one of my friends over to her table and told her that i needed a sex change operation. they were whispering and laughing very loudly. so when my friend came back, i asked her what they said. and she told me. so we spent the day discussing what a b*tch she was. and that night, i posted on my xanga saying that they were being very *superstitious* and *immature* and that she was the one who needed a sex change. then.. another day came. and it was around 10 PM, well J called me for some bloody reason, and she said that her friends were being stupid and posted on my xanga. i said i didnt care, hung up and checked my comments. well, there were about ten million comments on how J wasnt the one who needed a sex change but it was ME and that i was being stupid.. etc. all in swear words and stuff. then i couldnt take it anymore.. burst into tears and called another friend. let's call her N. well N told me that i should tell on J the next morning, and so i posted it up that they were going too far and stuff and that i couldn't take it anymore. well then J called me again, and asked if i was really going to tell on her and her friends (obviously she told them to comment then). the next day, i went with some of my other friends to the guidance council. the counciler (let's call her Mrs.C) was very patient, listened to our whole story and stuff.. and my friend also commented on how J was rude to her behind her back. Mrs.C said that we could go to her if J was teasing/bullying us in between that day, to the day after. then the story goes.. and we walk back into the caf again. well we were in the caf, J was there too. she was being very stupid and sarcastic and kept going: oh HIII, LAURIEE. so did u have FUN teling on us at GUIDANCEEE? and at that time, my friend also told me that J was the b*tchiest person on earth, ever seen. then we were eating our chips and drinking and stuff.. and suddenly J's friend came over with a CD. the CD had a label saying: "laurie's conversation evidence". i mean, who would ever do something so stupid? print out EVIDENCE? evidence of what? her bullying me?? i didnt want to have anything to do with it, so i didnt take it. gave it back to her friend who just came to school 2 days ago and happened to fit in so well like glue to paper. so i went back to Mrs.C and told her what they did, she asked if J was in the caf at that time.. i said yes. so Mrs.C said that she'd talk to J about it in the caf. then me n my friend hid in the other caf.. becos we didnt want them to tease us anymore. then we went in the lab for photos.. and when we came out, my accusing ex-best friend was there. she kept mocking me like this: "omg, im going to Mrs.C now to tell her that im being bullied!! i am SUCH a tattletaler, such a baby." and stuff.. i just ignored her. spent the whole way home *crying*. i know, i feel so stupid. so what should i do?? i mean.. i cant do anything. should i tell my parents that i do not like it in this school and request to switch schools? should i go to guidance again? should i even go to SCHOOL and continue being teased?? please help.. i have no idea what to do. sorry, if my grammar was weird.

oh, right. i forgot to tell u that afterwards this friend of J's came to me and said "u wont tell on me right? well lemme tell u, J told on u to Mrs.Mihaly." me: "wtever."

[Shattered_Hope]

That was simply the dumbest reason ever to stop being best friends...your friend seems really selfish.. I'm just wondering why you would ever be a friend much less a best friend with her ...but hmm...why didnt you shut down your xanga in the first place when you saw the offensive comments?
Too late now... ..just go to a staff member of your school and tell them the situation...your ex--friend's friend...should at least get ISS.. but yea..you shouldn't stop going to the school or transfer just becuz of some girl. Just hang in there..it'll be OK..[at least I hope]