are we or aren't we? Options

[flyonthewall4590]

alright. so i've known this guy alex, since we were really little...our parents are friends and all of that...well, in may of '03 i was at his house, (me and my mom go there a lot for some reason...) and we were hanging out in his room...and all of a sudden he says "i like you"...i was in total shock since i'm not exactley the prettiest girl out there, and i'm kinda, well, fat...but he said he meant it, and we started dating...over that summer we hung out all the time even though he lives about a two hour train ride away form my house...but when i went to school in september '04, i was in 8th grade and he was in 9th, and our relationship got tough...i never got to see him unless there was a holiday...we still talked, but it was super hard, and i was sooooooooooo relieved that summer finally arrived...we spent the whole summer together again, but when time to go to school rolled around again, we both decided to "take a break" over the school year...i mean, i know i shouldn't use the word love, since i'm kinda young, but i do think i love him, and he's told me he loves me too...and when i saw him over thanksgiving and christmas break, we got all lovey dovey and we acted like a total couple (holding hands, making out, ect.)...i'm confused...i guess we're technically still "on a break" and we can see other ppl (which i don't see happening on my side)...but we're still all couple-like when we see each other, so technically, are we together or not? i just wanted another girl's opinion. sorry if this was too long...

[angel-roh]

He probably thinks you guys are not on a break. Maybe he didn't get what you said when you meant that you wanted a break. So try to talk to him what he is really up to and if he knows that you guys are on a break. Maybe he wants you and doesn't want to have a break during your guy's relationship. So yeah ask him "Are we on a break or are you just playing around? Cause I'm really confused on what's really going on" And By the way, Do you know what Love really is. LOVE is the word where is hard to get and receive. I'm not gona say that you're too young to actually experience the word Love. If you love him, then that means you love him, you won't cheat, you won't use him, you will believe him in anything he says, if he tells you to sacrifice something you love like something that you really really love. But if he says "stop loving your friends of parents" don't listen to him then. But something else that will took your mind away from him.

Also how long have you known him? I don't think you have known him that long? Usually it takes about more than 2 years to experience the word "love". Have you known him for 2 years? First, you have to like him. You can't just love him very fast. It's always the word "LIKE" first. then "LOVE" after more than 2 years.