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 Jan 16 2005, 06:58 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL  Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230  |
Whew! Where to start. Ok- to cut this short, here's the dealio.
I am a straight girl and i'm starting to have these thoughts about another girl. I've NEVER felt this way before and it freaks me out because it goes against what i believe in. I'm against homosexuality but, why are these thoughts slowly but, surely invading my head? There are plenty of lesbians at my school so if i was to pursue this it wouldnt be unusual. I wonder what my friends would think? I know some would have a lot of shit to say and some would just wish me luck. Its just all so confusing for me. I know my bf would be mad as hell. If i was to pursue this & my family found out I would die. My family is extremely religious so i KNOW this would be the end of my life. My daddy, several uncles, and my grandaddy are all preachers so i know this would be the end of it for me. I was jokin around the other day and told my mama I was gay but i think she kinda believed it...then i told her my gf was in the newspaper. I was joking (i dont have gf) but, i was talking about the girl i'm diggin'. I think Patrice (thats her name) tried to get w/ me at the beginning of the school year (way before i started the having these thoughts). I was in Journeys and she was all asking me my name and age and ish. I was freaked out at the time but, now i wish that i had went for it instead of looking at her like she was crazy. I wonder does she even remember that she tried to talk to me & does she like me or whatever....uhh I dont really know what i'm asking. What i typed probably doesnt even make sense but, whatever |
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Jan 19 2005, 07:55 AM
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 ~The CB Advice Giver~ Group: Member Posts: 505 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,021 |
You're not gay. But here is a warning. Dont joke around about it, especally in a religious family. I have no problem with gay people and or friends, but some others may,a nd if you start joking about it people may look down on that. Also, depending on your religion, being gay means you end up in hell, no ifs ands or buts. liek i said i dont know your religion but im just giving you fair warning.
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miss barnes plz give your opinion Jan 16 2005, 06:58 PM
roberts_pink_drums whoa this is interesting .. just cause your having... Jan 16 2005, 07:11 PM airam it's karma! Jan 16 2005, 07:11 PM miss barnes QUOTE(roberts_pink_drums @ Jan 16 2005, 6:11 ... Jan 16 2005, 07:28 PM
airam QUOTE(miss barnes @ Jan 16 2005, 7:28 PM)how... Jan 16 2005, 08:48 PM Nicolatofu these teenage years, you are trying to find yourse... Jan 16 2005, 07:28 PM mouse_3k u r slowly become gay/bi? no worries. its all fine... Jan 16 2005, 07:43 PM Chii this is karma because you were against homosexuali... Jan 16 2005, 07:50 PM miss barnes QUOTE(chii @ Jan 16 2005, 6:50 PM)this is kar... Jan 16 2005, 08:36 PM miss barnes i KNOW i aint becoming gay...usher is too sexxy to... Jan 16 2005, 07:52 PM toodlepops. QUOTE(miss barnes @ Jan 16 2005, 7:52 PM)i KN... Jan 19 2005, 08:27 PM miss barnes QUOTE(saMieRa @ Jan 19 2005, 7:27 PM)thats ju... Jan 19 2005, 10:50 PM Shortiiex what is the exact thoughts you are having?
it coul... Jan 16 2005, 07:54 PM Shattered_Hope To be honest I've never been in this situation... Jan 16 2005, 07:58 PM emmalie maybe you feel like that cuz she represents a ... Jan 16 2005, 07:58 PM actionrobot_go yeah, ill have to agree with airam. it's karma... Jan 16 2005, 09:10 PM winsome QUOTE(actionrobot_go @ Jan 16 2005, 9:10 PM)y... Jan 16 2005, 10:42 PM th5418 You can be bisexual. Jan 17 2005, 12:55 AM dOyOOHtHINK Personally... I'm as straight as lines on loos... Jan 17 2005, 01:22 AM miss barnes QUOTE(dOyOOHtHINK @ Jan 17 2005, 12:22 AM)Per... Jan 18 2005, 06:39 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE don't worry. make sure you really are thinking... Jan 18 2005, 09:01 PM bad_girl everyone goes through a time when they think they... Jan 19 2005, 05:27 AM _sarcastic_ think really hard bout this. you don't want to... Jan 19 2005, 06:23 AM yanners maybe you're bi.
just keeding. i agr... Jan 19 2005, 08:00 AM Oreo_bro QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 19 2005, 5:00 AM)maybe... Jan 19 2005, 08:31 AM yanners QUOTE(Oreo_bro @ Jan 19 2005, 9:31 PM)oh come... Jan 19 2005, 08:33 AM captured_serenity like what they are saying up there ^ be sure to th... Jan 19 2005, 08:33 AM Oreo_bro live life the way you want to live.
but every act... Jan 19 2005, 08:36 AM sheddingtears oh so you see her as a fine ass "guy"?
... Jan 22 2005, 07:17 PM miss barnes but, if i was to pursue this then, would i be bi t... Jan 22 2005, 08:35 PM airam QUOTE(miss barnes @ Jan 22 2005, 8:35 PM)but,... Jan 22 2005, 08:59 PM xd0rkette It's probably just a stage.
I'm not sure. ... Jan 22 2005, 08:55 PM |
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