Hitting your girlfriend., Has any guy ever done it? |
 Jan 15 2005, 05:38 AM
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 This is me.....Then.  Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,512  |
Well, heres what happened. Me and my boyfriend were arguing over something really reallys stupid, i don't even know why he started shouting at me - but it seriously p!ssed me off. He was saying all these things about our relationship and how i was "locking" him down, if he didn't wanna be in the relationship, he could just leave right? I slapped him in the face and he slapped me right back. I was too shocked to do anything else, so i walked out. It hurts me inside to know that he could even raise his hand to me, but to hurt me.. i think that was too far. I know i hit him first, but i never expected him to hit me back
 Right now, i don't know what to do... I know we need to speak, but i just can't.
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Jan 17 2005, 11:43 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
well, i'll tell you my code of ethics about hitting girls.
1. hitting for no reason, if it isn't hard, is ok. 2. don't hit, poke (if possible) 3. if she hits you, you can hit her back equally hard. so basically. you slapped him. (that was from me) i wanted to draw attention to a key phrase. equally hard- which usually means not very. |
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x____Broken_doll Hitting your girlfriend. Jan 15 2005, 05:38 AM
broken_lance Hey, how could he do that to you. he dont have the... Jan 15 2005, 10:47 AM th5418 You slapped him first. What doesn't give him t... Jan 15 2005, 11:04 AM
sexymixelix QUOTE(th5418 @ Jan 15 2005, 10:04 AM)You slap... Jan 15 2005, 03:25 PM
Frankie QUOTE(th5418 @ Jan 15 2005, 11:04 AM)You slap... Jan 16 2005, 03:52 PM Shattered_Hope if you're fighting with your b/f and you hit h... Jan 15 2005, 11:06 AM a smile is power QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Jan 15 2005, 11:06 AM)... Jan 15 2005, 03:28 PM MyVermilionPlague Dude, it's basically your fault for hitting hi... Jan 15 2005, 12:40 PM sadolakced acid well, i'll tell you my code of ethics about hi... Jan 15 2005, 12:54 PM captured_serenity QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jan 15 2005, 12:54 PM... Jan 16 2005, 10:34 PM Levy2k6 a reason guy usually hits back because guys dont l... Jan 15 2005, 12:56 PM DrEaMgUy2K1 when someone is angry, u dont go slappin the perso... Jan 15 2005, 12:57 PM broken_lance QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Jan 15 2005, 12:57 PM)whe... Jan 15 2005, 01:24 PM xj_liana_tx yeah it's wrong that you slapped him, but.. he... Jan 15 2005, 01:39 PM th5418 QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Jan 15 2005, 1:39 PM)yeah... Jan 15 2005, 08:58 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ well... hitting him wasn't exactly the way you... Jan 15 2005, 01:40 PM Skyline Drive QUOTE(xoxo_koala_kisses_ @ Jan 15 2005, 1:40 ... Jan 17 2005, 10:40 PM silver rain well, it was kinda your fault for hitting him firs... Jan 15 2005, 02:20 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE OH GOODNESS, he hit you? Dump him if you think he... Jan 15 2005, 02:56 PM teeners__15 if you slapped him, he is entitled the right to sl... Jan 15 2005, 03:08 PM sadolakced acid and why shouldn't guys hit girls, if they hit ... Jan 15 2005, 03:56 PM TrustU2HurtMe If I was a guy I would have hit you too. I kneed ... Jan 15 2005, 09:03 PM Funky Buddha WHat does it matter if your a girl? You females wa... Jan 15 2005, 09:10 PM Shortiiex he probably wasn't thinking straight, it is ju... Jan 15 2005, 10:21 PM _sarcastic_ you can't exactly blame him for hitting you, i... Jan 15 2005, 10:38 PM Cinnamoneyes wow I disagree with so many people on this. Yes yo... Jan 15 2005, 10:59 PM anoniez QUOTE(Cinnamoneyes @ Jan 15 2005, 10:59 PM)wo... Jan 17 2005, 10:14 PM sadolakced acid well; are guys just suppose to let girls beat on ... Jan 15 2005, 11:01 PM Mini as the third law of physics explains:
with every a... Jan 15 2005, 11:06 PM honorguard I don't hit anyone, male or female. Jan 15 2005, 11:10 PM th5418 QUOTE(Honorguard @ Jan 15 2005, 11:10 PM)I do... Jan 16 2005, 12:33 AM you suck wow. u shouldnt hit each other when ur mad and u s... Jan 16 2005, 12:37 AM x____Broken_doll I agree, i did hit him first and i know it was wro... Jan 16 2005, 09:58 AM sammi rules you if you know what you're going to do, why did y... Jan 16 2005, 11:06 AM x____Broken_doll [edit]
Okay, i'm gonna talk to him when i go ... Jan 17 2005, 02:13 PM captured_serenity QUOTE(touch my monkey @ Jan 16 2005, 11:06 AM... Jan 18 2005, 11:29 PM mz anita xP hm...hes wrong to start the argument but every rel... Jan 16 2005, 12:13 PM mouse_3k QUOTEI slapped him in the face and he slapped me r... Jan 16 2005, 02:51 PM wayne i play figh with girls/girlfreinds. but i never hi... Jan 16 2005, 03:04 PM pinayprincess break up man!!!! Jan 16 2005, 03:21 PM i heart john My boyfriend used to beat me up really badly. He p... Jan 16 2005, 03:26 PM mouse_3k QUOTEwho the hell made up that stupid rule? His ha... Jan 16 2005, 03:34 PM DaToNeViEtBoI916 ^ agreed on the bf abuse.
dude has anger problems... Jan 16 2005, 03:35 PM mouse_3k I mean [f]eleeza's case seems more reasonable ... Jan 16 2005, 03:39 PM xd0rkette woww.
as everyone said that you should of suspecte... Jan 16 2005, 04:02 PM [2]Nekked just because someone hits you...that doesnt give y... Jan 16 2005, 04:17 PM mouse_3k QUOTEwoww.
as everyone said that you should of sus... Jan 16 2005, 05:31 PM blackbow wow.. you slapped him? why? wasn't he angry?... Jan 16 2005, 07:28 PM picaso_smile A gentleman wouldn't hit a lady. . . But some ... Jan 16 2005, 08:32 PM th5418 QUOTE(picaso_smile @ Jan 16 2005, 8:32 PM)[ed... Jan 17 2005, 01:23 AM Cake. Well you slapped him. So he slapped you. You shoul... Jan 16 2005, 09:04 PM PersonalJesus This really pisses me off because a women can hit ... Jan 16 2005, 11:00 PM th5418 Answer me this. Why shouldn't we be able to sl... Jan 17 2005, 12:25 AM mouse_3k ^ thts my question. even though im a girl, i think... Jan 17 2005, 12:49 AM Stupidxaimee hmm i guess him slapping you is wrong but in a way... Jan 17 2005, 01:20 AM sadolakced acid oh come on.
guys have to pay for all the dates,... Jan 17 2005, 01:38 AM bad_girl QUOTEYou slapped him first. What doesn't give ... Jan 17 2005, 03:32 AM The 1 and only JJ it might have just been a reaction. cause i know w... Jan 17 2005, 03:36 AM xGlovex ID NEVER HIT A GIRL! Jan 17 2005, 02:26 PM x____Broken_doll QUOTE(xGlovex @ Jan 17 2005, 2:26 PM)ID NEVER... Jan 17 2005, 02:33 PM pinayprincess man if my man did that to me...f*k we'd be ove... Jan 17 2005, 04:41 PM sexymixelix QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Jan 17 2005, 3:41 PM)ma... Jan 17 2005, 05:56 PM blowpops69 my ex did. after we broke up. Jan 17 2005, 05:45 PM th5418 Insolent little girls who think that men should be... Jan 17 2005, 06:33 PM cAnIhAvsUmrIcEpls QUOTEwell, i'll tell you my code of ethics abo... Jan 17 2005, 09:03 PM SSJ Kenshin Any guy that would hit a girl isn't a guy. Jan 17 2005, 09:15 PM redroses85 you slapped him... he slapped you back
Ever think ... Jan 18 2005, 06:10 AM Fatality He hit you.
He's not worth your time.
I've... Jan 18 2005, 02:47 PM th5418 QUOTE(Fatality @ Jan 18 2005, 2:47 PM)He hit ... Jan 18 2005, 06:40 PM mouse_3k QUOTEThis isn't abusive. She hit him first. If... Jan 18 2005, 06:42 PM Endless_Symphony That's arrogant to say a girl has every right ... Jan 18 2005, 11:04 PM 177emories just DUMP him and see what happens... but when you... Jan 18 2005, 11:13 PM cewinee ok it sucks to sound sexist but in reality.. guys ... Jan 19 2005, 04:32 PM cewinee oh yeah i forgot to add.. bout u slapping him.. yo... Jan 19 2005, 04:33 PM cmgchica717 You hit him first. Its just as NOT right for you ... Jan 19 2005, 04:47 PM th5418 QUOTE(cmgchica717 @ Jan 19 2005, 4:47 PM)You ... Jan 19 2005, 06:30 PM toodlepops. what a loser your b/f is.
yea, you hit him, he hi... Jan 19 2005, 08:24 PM wind&fire get a azn gang to beat the shit outta him Jan 19 2005, 08:58 PM Spirited Away QUOTE(AzNbUbZ @ Jan 19 2005, 8:58 PM)get a az... Jan 20 2005, 02:32 PM MyVermilionPlague QUOTEget a azn gang to beat the shit outta him
Eh.... Jan 19 2005, 10:42 PM mouse_3k guys chills. if you continue to make offensive com... Jan 19 2005, 11:13 PM travnewmatic im facing a similar problem. my girlfriend is pla... Jan 20 2005, 02:46 PM Nugget ok heres wut i think about this:
-dump him
-he sh... Jan 20 2005, 03:55 PM gponce10104 mabye you should go up to him and tell him you are... Jan 20 2005, 04:19 PM |
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