YOUR definition of true love, ..obvious Options

[Alternativemado]

I was thinking and i was just curious what you guys thought love means or what love is. Do we naturally love or do we learn to love?

[Kriegsgefangene]

Love is shoveled into three different messes.

One being the tennage drama-

One being that important someone-

And the other being love for common human beings.

The teenage drama scene of love is obviously contained within the teenage population, and mostly located throughout highschool. There are all the instances, where people go mad over breakups, and have a high tendancy of holding grudges for some guy who likes your girl friends. That is more like the experimental stage of love.

Then we move onto the out of highschool, college-bound and maybe even out of college love. This is where it is more meaningful. This goes to the end of your life/ til a divorce. This is a point in which you are able to make a decision, knowing and experiencing most of all that before hand. This is where you want someone to be with, and have a happy life, being able to grow old with someone. So, you are a bit more careful on choosing who you think is right for you, and you make sure they are the one, before going off into holy matromony. (sp?) There are still those people who are stuck in stage one, and seem to divorce, like movie stars.

Then, for number three. This isn't part of the stages, really. It is more of an all around appearance on life itself. You may not know the person next to you while you are riding the train, but, if an accident were to happen, out of common curtesy, you would try and help them, because they are the essence of life itself. You would feel quiet hurt if they were to die, sort of like if your mother had done so, or any other family member. You may not cry, or feel as much affection for them, but it is somewhat close.

One girl in my school, she died about a year ago. Her name was Lauren Stilwell. She was hit in a car crash one morning, while jogging down the road. She ended up dying around 2 hours after being taken to the hospital. Of course, the soccer team cried, because she was on it. And yet, some other people did as well, even though they didn't know the person. All they knew was that it was life, and it was close to them.

So.. ehh. That is my view on it all.