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Friendship POLICE needed!!! HELP, A friend that i dont realy want
dOyOOHtHINK
post Jan 17 2005, 02:52 AM
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ohmy.gif This girl.. Jenn.. shes new to the school district and its her first year in public school ever... well im sorta like her only friend... and shes really sweet an all but shes like trying to get really close to me as a friend like she hugs me when she sees me.. and i see her everywhere that i started calling her my little stalker when i tell my other friend and family about it... i dont wanna let her down and ive given her plenty of advice before on how to make more friends and how to fit in.. like the other day.. she asked me to make her feel more "included" in the group that hangs out once the bell rings for lest period to be over.. and i told her.. I cant make you feel more included im not your mother.. you do these things on your own... its like after all of my classes she would come to see me just to say hi and get that hug that she needs.. my EX-boyfriend did that (p.s i miss him very much cry.gif ) Hed go out of his way just to see me and get that little kiss after every class... well besides that.. i dont kno how to tell her that.. i wasnt expecting anymore friends that im close to.. i have like 4 and i dont even want that many.. it would be cool to have her as just a hey whats up whenever you just happen to see her kinda friend... but shes always saying... omg we need to hang out.. i have to go over your house.. cause youve been to mine... like how do i tell her without breaking her "friendship heart"

Wierd Act: she told me that on the first day of school she went home to her mom and said " Mom, theres this girl tori at school that i really wanna be friends with her but i dont think shell like me.. what do i do?" her mom told her to just confront me and see how it goes..


and i did say shes really sweet and a pretty cool person.. but im juts not that interested.. ya kno.. what do i do?
 
 
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jennyjenny
post Jan 17 2005, 08:30 AM
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Erm.
She just wants to fit in. Maybe her old friends used to be like that, and she just doesn't know how to act now. Why not give her a chance?
 

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dOyOOHtHINK   Friendship POLICE needed!!! HELP   Jan 17 2005, 02:52 AM
Nicolatofu   well you could give her the cold shoulder....but t...   Jan 17 2005, 02:55 AM
xSWEETxCANDiix   QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Jan 16 2005, 11:55...   Jan 17 2005, 05:33 AM
swtlildreamz   awwe..I guess you have to talk to her about it. We...   Jan 17 2005, 03:01 AM
dOyOOHtHINK   good idea... but true.. i dont wanna hurt her feel...   Jan 17 2005, 03:01 AM
bad_girl   "hey tori (or wtever ur name is) make me feel...   Jan 17 2005, 03:21 AM
dOyOOHtHINK   i dont kno how many times i thought that.. but the...   Jan 17 2005, 03:24 AM
dOyOOHtHINK   any other advice...   Jan 17 2005, 03:56 AM
toodlepops.   shouldn't this be in relationships or somethin...   Jan 17 2005, 04:50 AM
pick_the_scab   okay well...I'm not gonna give you advice beca...   Jan 17 2005, 06:14 AM
Cake.   Erm. She just wants to fit in. Maybe her old frien...   Jan 17 2005, 08:30 AM
iheartsimba   Moved to Relationships Anyway, be as nice as you ...   Jan 17 2005, 10:06 AM
Shortiiex   well, you are probably her only friend and she doe...   Jan 17 2005, 10:11 AM
sammehmyst   Well, she's new. Give her some time.   Jan 17 2005, 11:59 AM
dOyOOHtHINK   wow.. no offence but it was pretty stupid to move ...   Jan 17 2005, 12:28 PM
Shattered_Hope   Just tell her how you feel.....be straight-forward...   Jan 17 2005, 01:31 PM
yukichan   just tell her how u feel..good luck...   Jan 17 2005, 04:18 PM
malimars   Usually people like that are really nice and stuff...   Mar 9 2005, 11:23 PM
xd0rkette   I'm kind of in that situation too. Cept the gi...   Mar 9 2005, 11:34 PM
AngelTears   Well, was she homeschooled before? Well, I'm ...   Mar 10 2005, 12:01 AM
dahding   tough situation. i'd say, introduce her to som...   Mar 10 2005, 12:03 AM
AngelTears   LOL, that was great.. ^^ Man, your not random, y...   Mar 10 2005, 12:07 AM


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