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[lovescream]

Haven't seen a topic.. most chanes yes there are, but umm, that was then, this is now!
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Are you close to your parents?
Mom?
Dad?

I'm not. My mom is too NOSY, mean, disrespectful and when i'm pissed, she tries to joke around which makes me more pissed off.

o.O How about you? Close to your parents?

[Just_Dream]

My mom can say really cruel things to me, which hurts my feelings... I hate it when I try so hard in school and I get good grades, but just because whenever my mother sees me around the house, I'm not doing homework and she thinks I'm lazy and failing in class. (Yea I know, that was a run-on sentence). And it irritates me when she depends on me so much about helping around the house and what not, when she could always ask my older sister for help.. Bleh but my older sister is such a "female-dog" that my mother has to always complain to me about everything. But I'm nicer and closer to my mother than my older sister is to my mother. You see, my mother went through a great many of terrible situations and it was really tough for her when she lived in Vietnam. She cooks dinner, cleans the house, drives me home, etc., so deep down I really do love her. I just hate how she often bothers me about the littlest things and it irritates me. But I still am close with her.

But my father is an entirely different story. He's the single person that I loathe the most. He's crazy--he yells at my mother for the stupidest reasons. You know what's so rude about him? Whenever I was little, he would always call me "cho-(insert my viet name here)" and I always though he was just saying I was a dog or something, like a cute animal or something like that. About two years ago my mother got angry at me and called me that. I was like "okay..." and we were at my niece's house in Palm Springs. Then My niece says "omg, why did your mother call you that?! That's so rude! That's calling you a bad name." She said somethign along the lines of that. I was like.. WTF?! But it was my FATHER who always called me that.. my mother rarely called me that. What kind of father would say that?!

Erg, and I HATE how my father would hit me when I was little. He even hit me when I was 13 (7th grade) when we were driving to Santa Ana. Did I mention that my father is a pervert?! I can finally admit that my father was a pervert. If he wasn't such a f*cking pervert and tried to touch my leg--he sat in the driver seat and I sat in the passenger seat behind him--when we were in the car, he wouldn't have gotten his stupid hand stepped on as I tried to defend myself by kicking his hand away. I accidentally smushed his hand against the thingy (in the car where you can put stiff in, in the middle of the car) with my platform sneakers. And then he yelled really loud and then stopped the car as wel were backing out of the driveway and he opened my car door and pulled my hair. He pulled a group of hair out of my head and it hurt like heck. YES, I was THIRTEEN then. I hated him so much...

I hated my father, for all that he did, for being such a terrible father. Not ONLY did he beat me because I accidentally hit him because I WAS TRYING TO DEFEND MYSELF FROM HIS SICK GRASP, but he also hit my mother. He would yell at her when he lost the damn keys! It was his fault.. He always tries to act like he's right in everything. He tore my whole family apart. That's why I only live with my mother and real sister now.. He kicked my half sister and half-brother out of the house. But hey, that's good because they have a better life now, away from him. I visit them a lot. And another half-sister moved out and she hates him too. Everyone hates my father. There's so much more to say but I don't think I'll explain any more.

But one more thing... the reason why so many people dislike my father is because of his infidelity. I trust that you all know what that means. I hated him for that.. how could he do that to my mother? Not only does she STILL cook for him, but she even did his laundry once, etc. My father moved out, and his ugly-arse gf is such a gold-digger, puts on a lot of makeup and looks like a FOB (like she just came from Asia), looks like a whore (her face looks slutty -_-), and can't even cook, clean, or do laundry. How pathetic.

I guess my father and her deserve each other. They are disrespectful as well as dependent.