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lh8
post Jan 13 2005, 10:32 AM
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What should you do if the girl has a B/F but you liked her?
 
 
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post Jan 13 2005, 04:31 PM
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well you can always be her friend right? huh.gif That's a good way to get to know someone. Is she already your friend? Because some of the greatest relationships bloom from friendships.
 
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post Jan 14 2005, 07:51 AM
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QUOTE(souldreamers @ Jan 13 2005, 4:31 PM)
well you can always be her friend right?  huh.gif  That's a good way to get to know someone.  Is she already your friend?  Because some of the greatest relationships bloom from friendships.
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agree!!!

l love someone but she love someone else but that doesn't mean that we cant be friends. l am happy being her friend coz l can express my love for her through friendship. lf her boyfriend broke her heart, l will be there for her no matter what and wait for the moment that she fall for me, love me for what l am and where l came from. l dont want to force her to fall for me, l want her to fall for me naturally
 
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post Jan 14 2005, 04:54 PM
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QUOTE(broken_lance @ Jan 14 2005, 4:51 AM)
agree!!!

l love someone but she love someone else but that doesn't mean that we cant be friends. l am happy being her friend coz l can express my love for her through friendship. lf her boyfriend broke her heart, l will be there for her no matter what and wait for the moment that she fall for me, love me for what l am and where l came from. l dont want to force her to fall for me, l want her to fall for me naturally
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disagreed... once you become best friends, it's almost hard to take the relationship to another level. It's like dating your brother or sister. It's good to be friends in the beginning, but if you want to date the girl / boy, make sure that you express your feelings soon and don't make become friends for too long... this is the most common mistakes made by guys... for many, they'd rather keep the best friend than "risk" the relationship.
 
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post Jan 14 2005, 10:12 PM
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QUOTE(im2tall @ Jan 14 2005, 1:54 PM)
disagreed... once you become best friends, it's almost hard to take the relationship to another level.  It's like dating your brother or sister.  It's good to be friends in the beginning, but if you want to date the girl / boy, make sure that you express your feelings soon and don't make become friends for too long... this is the most common mistakes made by guys... for many, they'd rather keep the best friend than "risk" the relationship.
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That's true. I know someone who liked a girl who was his friend.. and he never wanted to take their friendship a step further.. He was too scared that things might be awkward, that if she rejected him, their friendship might end. It's a risky situation. Sure, getting to know someone better is good and all, but it really depends. I concur with the "make sure you express your feelings soon" because if you tell the guy/girl "I want to get to know you better, I really like you," then it would be a good way to start out a relationship.. through friendship first.

But anyway, I also agree with Seon Ho... Maybe you're the guy who she's meant to be with.. you never know.. If you truly care enough to wait for her, then wait.

But if you like her a little bit and just want to be in a relationship, maybe you should move on and find someone else. You probably heard of this cliché many times, but I'm going to say it again: "There's plenty of fish in the sea."

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lh8   Girl   Jan 13 2005, 10:32 AM
nlgrl   look for someone elce... or wait till their relati...   Jan 13 2005, 10:40 AM
someflipguy   Umm... she wont neccesarily hate you! Ive don...   Jan 13 2005, 10:45 AM
sunissed14127   I would just look for someone else....because if y...   Jan 13 2005, 12:54 PM
Chii   find someone else, if she's already in a relat...   Jan 13 2005, 02:24 PM
strwbrrykiwi23   give her up... there are plenty of girls in the wo...   Jan 13 2005, 02:27 PM
krnxswat   If you truly liked her, you would wait for her and...   Jan 13 2005, 03:28 PM
mouse_3k   skip her and look for someone else. she has a bf s...   Jan 13 2005, 04:29 PM
souldreamers   well you can always be her friend right? That...   Jan 13 2005, 04:31 PM
broken_lance   QUOTE(souldreamers @ Jan 13 2005, 4:31 PM)wel...   Jan 14 2005, 07:51 AM
im2tall   QUOTE(broken_lance @ Jan 14 2005, 4:51 AM)agr...   Jan 14 2005, 04:54 PM
Just_Dream   QUOTE(im2tall @ Jan 14 2005, 1:54 PM)disagree...   Jan 14 2005, 10:12 PM
DixieDaCutie   just keep friendly with her---   Jan 13 2005, 05:08 PM
xsweetxcandyx   be friendly with her.. but don't hit on her......   Jan 13 2005, 07:16 PM
im2tall   my personal philosophy is that just because there ...   Jan 13 2005, 09:39 PM
LEDO_D0RKETTE   Well, you just got to wait 'til your turn. Jus...   Jan 14 2005, 12:14 AM
jennypie   kill yourself, obviously   Jan 14 2005, 01:29 AM
_sarcastic_   just move on, like everyone said be friends with h...   Jan 14 2005, 06:06 AM
travnewmatic   wait her out. DONT MOVE IN! when you think a...   Jan 14 2005, 02:49 PM
DrEaMgUy2K1   u kill the other guy and be her boyfriend   Jan 14 2005, 02:56 PM
lilxl0ser   lols maybe you should look for someone else...cuz ...   Jan 14 2005, 05:09 PM
bad_girl   u cant do anything.   Jan 14 2005, 09:52 PM
Shattered_Hope   I think you should do the right thing [back away f...   Jan 15 2005, 12:58 AM


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