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 Jan 14 2005, 08:58 PM
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I've been dating the same guy for 4 months now, and I love him to pieces. Thing is, we've never kissed, and that's something personally I'd like to do (yeah, something I haven't done yet and I've had 2 other relationships before this..
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Jan 14 2005, 09:04 PM
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If you're not 100% ready and comfortable with kissing him or getting physical in ANY way, then you should not do it. Don't even let him take the first initiative if you're having second thoughts. I understand that past issues/relationships can create some tension and caution - which is totally ok! Just wait! There's no rush in the snogging, lol. Take your time and make sure YOU want to do it.
And if he takes the first initiative? Again, only do it if you're comfortible. He'll understand. 
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meriwether444 initiative.. or just wait? Jan 14 2005, 08:58 PM
Chii if you really want to kiss him, then go ahead, it... Jan 14 2005, 09:09 PM
UrF4vL!pGl0Zz1212 QUOTE(chii @ Jan 14 2005, 8:09 PM)if you real... Jan 15 2005, 07:56 PM MyVermilionPlague If you feel that he's ready and that you'r... Jan 14 2005, 09:23 PM pullthecord_x well, unless youre sure that you want too kiss him... Jan 14 2005, 09:25 PM bad_girl if u're sure he feels the same way, then go ah... Jan 14 2005, 09:32 PM KissMe2408 You should wait! Because i dated this guy, and... Jan 14 2005, 09:42 PM silver rain yeah, i would suggest you wait. but if you think y... Jan 14 2005, 09:55 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE I think you should wait. Don't you think he wo... Jan 14 2005, 10:34 PM DixieDaCutie if u think he wants 2 kiss u too, go for it ! ... Jan 15 2005, 12:45 AM xj_liana_tx on the bright side, you guys are going out, be con... Jan 15 2005, 01:37 PM Shattered_Hope just wait. Jan 15 2005, 01:45 PM sunissed14127 if you really want to kiss him, make the first mov... Jan 15 2005, 02:19 PM AeRoSwEeTie4259 Well, if you're ready to take your guys relati... Jan 15 2005, 06:49 PM Shortiiex wait till the right moment(the romantic moment)..t... Jan 15 2005, 06:53 PM angel_revelation hmm well... i'd usually think it's better ... Jan 15 2005, 07:11 PM Xprezsion I think it is time, just don't do it at a comp... Jan 15 2005, 07:55 PM dahding smack him across the head and say, "its been ... Jan 15 2005, 09:54 PM you suck QUOTEsmack him across the head and say, "its ... Jan 16 2005, 01:18 AM iheartsimba well first it sort of takes steps...you know holdi... Jan 16 2005, 01:22 AM sheddingtears well if you love him and you would like to, find t... Jan 16 2005, 03:35 PM pikimoo Haha.. I felt the same way with my current boyfrie... Jan 16 2005, 03:43 PM x shootingstar x if you want to, do it.
if you're not sure, d... Jan 16 2005, 11:49 PM so0o_contagious well. ive never been in this situation.. cuz ive o... Jan 16 2005, 11:51 PM KRicoBoriqua Its been 4 months! How can you take it any lon... Jan 17 2005, 12:16 AM xoxofrmnyc some guyz think itz sexi when girlz take the initi... Feb 11 2005, 02:29 PM |
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