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 Jan 13 2005, 06:38 AM
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OOOH ... ok .. here's the deal. I just moved to a new school. Now im pressured to be cool, have a boyfriend so on. and i have ... i never hadto do this in my old school. Im not used to it... my friends are having a party ... and they invited me. They are inviting boys and i come from a strict family where i am not allowed to go out with boys. I already lied to my parents saying that there will be more girls then boys, and that the boys are perfect gentlemens ( cough ) .. but ... i feel so guilty .. i hate lying ... i told my friends already and they said that its a way of life... i hate them .. but they are popular and if i express how i feel about them .. they will turn everyone against me .. help ..
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Jan 14 2005, 03:02 PM
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there comes a time where you gotta start doing your own thing regardless of what your parents wishes are. the question is when to start making those judgements for yourself. (i think i big thing people leave out of their posts is how old they are) dont get drunk. dont get pregnant. dont get killed. you gotta think (i wish i knew how old these people are) about the likelihood of thes things happening are. liek okay. if you know theres going to be boose there, be careful. if theres gonna be drugs there, be a little more careful. if theres boose and cars, get your own ride. im never one to turn down a good time, but not at the expense of yoru life. thats ungood. and yeah, be yourself. people that are your friends who ARE your friends because of who youve become arent your friends. you gotta get the friends that like you the way you are (for the most part at least). i know peer pressure is a difficult thing to break free from, especially when you havent come of age, but that doesnt mean you shouldnt try. im all for experimentation, but only to the point where peoples lives are in danger. but yeah, get yourself a dood. are you asian? i know what its like to have an asian girlfriend. that was a bad deal... crazy as hell, but it shouldnt have happened the way it did.... ANYWAY! just use your own judgement. dont get drunk. i think thats the biggest danger i see. just have a good time.
DO YOUR OWN THING =be yourself DONT GET PREGNANT DONT GET KILLED :) |
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x_NeverLetGo Lying Jan 13 2005, 06:38 AM
broken_lance why do you try to be cool? why dont you just be yo... Jan 13 2005, 09:25 AM Dark Saga It's stupid to be something that you obviously... Jan 13 2005, 06:01 PM cmgchica717 Seriously like everyone else said why are you tryi... Jan 13 2005, 06:04 PM MyVermilionPlague Just be yourself.
It may sound cheesy, but it... Jan 13 2005, 06:23 PM mouse_3k go and have fun. Once you start having fun, the gu... Jan 13 2005, 06:28 PM xsweetxcandyx u will have to start hanging out with boys someday... Jan 13 2005, 06:42 PM xj_liana_tx we have the same situation, except that i just do... Jan 13 2005, 06:47 PM Chii you should stop making such a big deal out of thin... Jan 13 2005, 09:15 PM krnxswat Your parents must be pretty stupid. Jan 13 2005, 10:38 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE Be yourself. Just go, if you hate them, why are yo... Jan 14 2005, 12:12 AM
broken_lance QUOTE(travnewmatic @ Jan 14 2005, 3:02 PM)the... Jan 15 2005, 10:05 AM travnewmatic QUOTE(broken_lance @ Jan 15 2005, 10:05 AM)ok... Jan 18 2005, 10:48 AM broken_lance QUOTE(travnewmatic @ Jan 18 2005, 10:48 AM)i ... Jan 18 2005, 02:32 PM Shattered_Hope wow....you'd do that for popularity??*lol* *ah... Jan 15 2005, 12:45 AM bad_girl if u really dont want to, then dont. make yourself... Jan 15 2005, 04:49 AM _sarcastic_ like above said, you shouldn't be something yo... Jan 15 2005, 08:55 AM xGlovex QUOTEwhy do you try to be cool? why dont you just ... Jan 15 2005, 09:50 AM yukichan be yourself..dont do something u dont want to.. Jan 15 2005, 02:46 PM Rachel is love you shouldn't have to lie to yourself, your fr... Jan 15 2005, 08:34 PM honorguard You don't have to do all that stuff to be cool... Jan 15 2005, 11:14 PM you suck omg the conformity is overbearing. STOP AND THINK ... Jan 16 2005, 12:47 AM YoGrandpaIsFine Don't try and act like someone else. Be yourse... Jan 16 2005, 12:51 AM captured_serenity why don't you just ditch the party and be your... Jan 17 2005, 05:05 AM sammehmyst Be yourself.
That's the best way. Jan 17 2005, 12:39 PM gponce10104 darn.. that MUST stink.. well im not allowd to hav... Jan 18 2005, 01:00 PM travnewmatic will somebody please tell me how old this girl is? Jan 19 2005, 02:49 PM Lonely0nE Heh-heh wow.. arguments in this room..! I do s... Jan 19 2005, 03:08 PM xd0rkette Trying to fit in should be the least of your probl... Jan 19 2005, 04:12 PM |
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