Sex, Wanted Sex... Options

[lh8]

I wanted sex so badly but don't hv a girl so wat should I do ???

[travnewmatic]

dont mail this guy in yet, i think theres hope. hes just misguided. the amount of sexual energy pent up in adolescant males is more than i think most people (girls of the same age, society) and even the doods themselves realize. i think thats what drives most doods (and some girls) to masturbate is because they have all of this accumulated libido. in fact, its probably healthy (within reason) to do periodic venting of sexual desire. better to beat off, than to go after a little kid or something not good like that. i dont think i have the perspective to know whether having this much sexual energy is going to have bad repercussions later on in life. right now im hoping not, due in large part to me being in that same libido-ful boat. i dont recall how old this guy is, but if hes of legal age or nearing legal age, then i dunno.

another perspective. not that being horny 24/7 is necesarily a bad thing, but perhaps he has yet to experience the finer things that women have to offer OTHER than their genetalia. like charming personalities. time and time again have i thought to myself how pleasing hearing the sound of a womans moan is... but compared to making my girlfriend laugh? ill take the laughter. one time on lovelines they made some reference to people having a cycle. some people are wired differently. i think guys at this age (especially) want it much more than women. or perhaps stated differently, ive theyve already experienced it, guys cant go without it nearly as long as women can (or at least thats how an 18 year old male sees things).

basically, hes just releasing his horniness in the wrong way. he needs to get busy beating it, find a girlfriend that will make out with him (WHO HE ISNT JUST DATING FOR THE MAKING OUT), or get castrated. its easy though, be warned, to get sucked into the physical and forget the emotional. the physical, to the untrained has a big potential to become all consuming, where all youre donig is making out. once things get to that point, there are still a number of options and its not then end of the relationship, so dont worry.

youre gonna be fine... just dont get pregnant.