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 Jan 12 2005, 01:35 AM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33  Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768  |
I just started dating a senior and i learned that he isn't a virgin... i like him, but ever since i was told this... i'm not sure anymore....
should i trust that he won't take advantage? can he be trusted? what do i do? |
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Jan 12 2005, 03:18 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(M1SSxCHR1SSY @ Jan 12 2005, 3:08 AM) well personally i don't think you should be dating someone if you don't trust them in the first place.  well, it's not like you can trust people automatically, people need to gain your trust i've dated a guy 5 years older than me (he was 21) he never pressured me into sex and he knew i was a virgin, make sure he understands and respects the fact that you don't believe in premarital sex, it's all good after that 
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Jan 12 2005, 08:41 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
QUOTE(chii @ Jan 12 2005, 1:18 PM) well, it's not like you can trust people automatically, people need to gain your trust i've dated a guy 5 years older than me (he was 21) he never pressured me into sex and he knew i was a virgin, make sure he understands and respects the fact that you don't believe in premarital sex, it's all good after that exactly. if you are dating someone you should have gotten to know them long enough to know that you trust them. they should have gained your trust by the time you date them. of course it doesn't come automatically. |
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xsweetxcandyx i need advice Jan 12 2005, 01:35 AM
WhiteLotus* Does he respect you? If he does respect you, he... Jan 12 2005, 01:39 AM MyVermilionPlague Eh. Just tell him you don't want to go that fa... Jan 12 2005, 02:18 AM
__Nessa QUOTE(Despise @ Jan 12 2005, 2:18 AM)Eh. Just... Jan 12 2005, 03:46 PM bad_girl so what if he's not a virgin????
maybe he was ... Jan 12 2005, 02:45 AM M1SSxCHR1SSY well personally i don't think you should be da... Jan 12 2005, 03:08 AM giggl3s just cause he had sex before doesn't mean he... Jan 12 2005, 03:11 AM Nicolatofu Just because he's a virging shouldn't make... Jan 12 2005, 06:56 AM strwbrrykiwi23 ooo! ooo!
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abstinence is key. Jan 12 2005, 07:10 AM xsweetxcandyx thxz all... i was just alittle nervous because i h... Jan 12 2005, 10:23 AM sunissed14127 well, if he is pressuring you to have sex and you ... Jan 12 2005, 11:49 AM cmgchica717 I have to agree with everyone! If he respects... Jan 12 2005, 11:57 AM LEDO_D0RKETTE I don't you should be dating somebody you don... Jan 12 2005, 08:45 PM electric shock See what he does. I mean, you'd never know at ... Jan 12 2005, 09:36 PM |
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