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[dukesoccer07]

How do you break up with someone who is depressive and totally obssesed with you?

[xTINAA]

hahahahah i went through this same thing. the guy i was dating was obsessive and crazy like. anyways, i didn't really see that he posessed any depressive like qualities but after we broke up i guess he was depressed for a while and now he changed into this guy who always does drugs and drinks. but yeah, i hope your situation doesn't turn out like mine did

anyways, i think the best way to break up with the person is to just tell them the truth. it will be better that way because if you lie, it doesn't help them to "fix" that mistake so they won't be like that in another relationship. also don't try to sugarcoat it too much because then it just starts to sound like a lie. be straightforward and honest and not too harsh. don't straight up tell the person "YOU ARE SO OBSESSIVE!!" tell that person that you feel like you need to breathe because they are not giving you enough room. let them know that the times you had together were good but you just aren't feeling it anymore and how it wouldn't be fair to them if you continued to be together because the feelings you had for them are gone. also tell them that you do still want to be friends with them because although the romantic part of the relationship might be gone, you still want to hold on to the friendship aspect of it. hope things work out =)