Is CreateBlog really one big happy family? Options

[BelovedOrchidx3]

So, hello, my name is Orchid, and I've been browsing around CreateBlog since February; I just never signed up until now. And, well, I'd just like to make a few comments about this whole website.

This is just an assumption, you know? That in Createblog, everyone is supposed to support each other, give advice, and have fun and enjoy being here. Well, I haven't been seeing much of it.

I've noticed some members giving out poor, ill-humored advice, something that's ought to make the starter of the topic feel bad. Stuff that won't help the starter of the topic AT ALL. I'm not pointing fingers, I've just noticed it A LOT. It's especially happening to the newbs. Oh wow, I don't see why the newb would want to stay here any longer if the responses they get are "You're just stupid." Well, not exactly but somewhere along those lines.

Guess what? Some members just don't type normally. They can't help it, and when they make a post about something and they kind of typE lyK dISh, people who respond to the topic make stupid posts that have nothing to do with the subject and say "Oh please type normally." And I know that seeing someone type like that is annoying, but it'd be a lot better if the members here just set that aside and give advice to the person without making irrelevant comments.

And I think some members in here at just a bit conceited about themselves. Well, conceited isn't a good word for it, but something like that. Such as, a while ago, someone made a topic about being too tall and not liking it (I'm not exactly sure it was specifically about this, but something like it), and the reponses he/she got weren't exactly helpful. Such as "Shut up and feel sorry for the short people," or "Stop showing off your height." I'm pretty sure that person wasn't showing off anything but was really disturbed by it, and I know there isn't much to say about it, but at least give some reassuring responses.

It just seems like people are being cruel to each other, and I don't think this is how createBlog should really be like. It'd be alot more fun for others if members made encouraging comments and stuff like that.

this can be ignored if wanted. I'm just saying something out of my heart, and I hope everyone can read this and change a bit.

Thanks,
Orchid

[DaTru KataLYST]

This can be disputed pro and con.

But if a heavenly being weighed the goods and bads of cB, I'm sure much more people have been helped and consoled than saddened and dissapointed.

cB = Helpful overall.
cB = Big happy family overall.

[xTINAA]

This can be disputed pro and con.

But if a heavenly being weighed the goods and bads of cB, I'm sure much more people have been helped and consoled than saddened and dissapointed.

cB = Helpful overall.
cB = Big happy family overall.

i have to agree with him
i haven't been with CB for a really long time or anything but i still do feel like it is a helpful community despite those few people who aren't helpful/nice. i mean, it's not like it can be helped that there are a few of those people who are rude and always irrelevant to topics because that happens in any community whether an online community or a real coommunity. But, i have to say that the majority of the people on CB are nice, friendly, encouraging, and helpful. so i hope that you are able to look past those few people who aren't nice and helpful to see those who are because a lot of them are out there.