relationship, people Options

[lovescream]

Uh.. yeah.. I felt bored so I felt like posting this.

My best advice, and I think, the best advice is to not go out with someone you don't really know.

First I read a book about this girl, wanting to go out with this oh-so popular, handsome jock, and when the chance finally came, she got raped.

Second of all, you may think someone is cute, hotttttt, sexyyyy, whatever you people call those guys these days, but their personality may be... bad.
A girl has a boyfriend... she met the boyfriend at school. It was puppy love.. young puppy love. The girl had a crush.. thought he was her world. She thought that if she was married to this man, her life was absolute complete.

WRONG!
It turns out the guy likes her back so they go out.
and all of a sudden this guy is annoying. He's stalking her, trying to impress her in the wrong ways, trying to be like her. annoying. he may be cute, but he's not who he may be.
Or she.

And my last story is that I know this really cute guy in my class and he dates a girl like every school year. He never asks them out, the girls asks him out.
He always says yes, and I can tell he gets annoyed by the girlfriend. He's my male friend, so. . .
but anyhoo... my friend asked him out and they never spent any time with eachother.
Unpredictable.
He may be cute but he's not boyfriend material.
or girlfriend.. in a guy's case.

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-->Concluding sentence<--
Dont date someone you don't fully know.

^ that was extremely random.
some mod or whatever can close it or whatever if it's not allowed.

//Edit: I also posted this in hopes of getting it pinned.
*Crosses fingers*

[_sarcastic_]

what you said is true, most ppl just go for the looks, not really caring about the personality, which is pretty wrong.

[Chii]

what you said is true, most ppl just go for the looks, not really caring about the personality, which is pretty wrong.

i don't think it's true, i have never seen any of those cases, people will care in the long run if their significant other is a real b*tch or a pain in the ass, no one will want to deal with that

first story
that was a book...those things rarely happen and if it does, he would get a reputation for doing that

second story
so what if he tries too hard? he can't show that he really loves her?

third story
he'll learn someday, it gets boring when you have a relationship just to have it and it's all fake...since he's your friend shouldn't you have tried to fix his habits for your fellow females?

concluding sentence
i don't think so...you should take a chance, if people do listen to this what are they going to do? date their friends and ruin the friendship when they break up? half (or more) of the fun of starting a relationship is getting to know the other person, what fun is it if you know everything about him, what's there to talk about? how are you going to stay up for hours on the phone comparing stupid stories with your boy/girlfriend?