virginity, what age? |
virginity, what age? |
Apr 4 2004, 11:48 PM
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how do you know if your making the right desision by having sex with someone....i feel like shes the one for me but im only 15...and i want to make sure that i loose it to the right person...everyone says to wait till marrage but 50% of marrages end in devorce anyway so...yeah...
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Apr 5 2004, 01:52 PM
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QUOTE well, you are one of the few people that I have heard of. I guess it depends on the person, but I only want to have that kind of relationship with one person in my life. If you still feel fine about it then that's good, but I considor it as something sacred and meaningful and powerful enough to actually hurt people when abused. I know I wouldn't feel fine, and I'm not going to reccomend it for anyone to take that risk. Sure sex is good, but there are other good things in life without having to take risks. Personally, I'm glad that you don't have any STDs or gotten anyone pregnant. You are one of the lucky ones. Each time i thought I was with "the one" and i thought I was in love. I was ready as many others have been at my age so I did it. Now I've had many "ones" and I've realized that each person is different and you can love someone just as much as another yet have the love be completely different each time. I personally don't think sex is that meaningful...It's more like a release of all the aggresions I have to everyone else. And it IS AND ALWAYS SHOULD be fun...if it ain't fun...Then you ain't doin it right. As far as risks go...Sure, it is a risk, but most things in life that are worth doing have a risk...And I'm ready to take responsibilty for anything I do, thats just part of life. Risk is part of life..It's the part that makes things interesting. |
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brian_deegan virginity Apr 4 2004, 11:48 PM
krnxswat You should learn how to spell before you have sex. Apr 4 2004, 11:58 PM
psychoticangel That's so weet of you It's a rarity to fe... Apr 4 2004, 11:59 PM
CEP Why are you asking us?
You should ask her.
I mean,... Apr 5 2004, 12:06 AM
LQ_Darksoul I hate to be the bad influence here...But Sex is a... Apr 5 2004, 12:10 AM
inn0centmarianne um, are you ready to take on big responsibility? w... Apr 5 2004, 12:23 AM
conster i always thought its better to have sex after marr... Apr 5 2004, 12:27 AM
k00alah there really isnt a way to know you're ready..... Apr 5 2004, 12:39 AM
SeoulJah4God Sex after marriage.... Yea go to a teen and say DO... Apr 5 2004, 06:57 AM
jooleeah Don't ya think 15 is too young? maybe like...i... Apr 5 2004, 09:45 AM
alinamalina14 iuno, i think 15 is 2 young, and even if it were l... Apr 5 2004, 09:49 AM
galilea You are only fifteen years old. No adays condoms c... Apr 5 2004, 01:14 PM
LQ_Darksoul I started when I was 14..I'm still disease fre... Apr 5 2004, 01:19 PM
galilea well, you are one of the few people that I have he... Apr 5 2004, 01:40 PM
galilea It makes things interesting until you lose.
And s... Apr 5 2004, 02:10 PM
cutielilsuga QUOTE well keep it or lose it..everyo... Apr 5 2004, 02:14 PM
rushx if u luv her, feelings won't change right? the... Apr 5 2004, 11:31 PM
xquizit if you're having doubts... then you're not... Apr 5 2004, 11:47 PM
iTzJoEzLaDiEe i lost my v when i was 16, 15 to me seems really y... Apr 5 2004, 11:58 PM
f00LisH_h3aRt63 wow this is a good topic. well for me im still a v... Apr 6 2004, 12:13 AM
AngelicEyz00 I dunno. It's you're decision if you wanna... Apr 6 2004, 01:21 AM
COLDasICE I think you're a little too young to think abo... Apr 6 2004, 02:21 AM
x_angawhomps is she pressuring you to have sex with her or some... Apr 6 2004, 02:29 AM
b3atr3d QUOTE(f00LisH_h3aRt63 @ Apr 5 2004, 9:13 PM)p... Apr 6 2004, 02:31 AM
dani41790 i think u should stio wait till ur married to do i... Apr 7 2004, 02:06 AM
mglbaby is it true dat when u loose ur virginity u stop gr... Apr 12 2004, 01:33 AM
mznina keep it... i think you would feel so much better a... Apr 12 2004, 08:57 AM
kaleidoscoped Save it for your wedding night - makes it all the ... Apr 12 2004, 10:34 AM
LQ_Darksoul yes...Save sex for your wedding...So the first tim... Apr 12 2004, 02:40 PM
AngelicEyz00 QUOTE(LQ_Darksoul @ Apr 12 2004, 12:40 PM)yes... Apr 12 2004, 11:50 PM
mzpaddy well..it depends on how long u've been togethe... Apr 13 2004, 12:10 AM
Split One QUOTE(LQ_Darksoul @ Apr 5 2004, 12:10 AM)I ha... Apr 13 2004, 12:20 AM
xjjajeengx man. ur 15? dude. im 14 and i had to geta lesson f... Apr 13 2004, 12:27 AM
xxinn0c3ntwunxx i've always thought after marriage Apr 13 2004, 12:39 AM
LuShuZxLaNa QUOTE(brian_deegan @ Apr 4 2004, 9:48 PM)how ... Apr 13 2004, 06:39 PM
thedilenquent lol @ sex is great but this is something you need ... Apr 13 2004, 06:44 PM
hair products he's asking us because he wants us to watch. Apr 13 2004, 08:25 PM
LaZazn QUOTE(inn0centmarianne @ Apr 5 2004, 12:23 AM... Apr 13 2004, 10:58 PM
LuShuZxLaNa QUOTE(LaZazn @ Apr 13 2004, 8:58 PM)That... Apr 13 2004, 11:48 PM
AngelicEyz00 QUOTE(LaZazn @ Apr 13 2004, 8:58 PM)That... Apr 13 2004, 11:51 PM
rOckThISshYt well, i'm really the wrong person to ask becau... Apr 14 2004, 12:24 AM
LinknPrk__003 LOL i lost my virginity at 15 yrs. old Apr 14 2004, 12:27 AM
rOckThISshYt okay... now... if any athority feels they should c... Apr 14 2004, 12:35 AM
hOeyx3 i lost it when i was 14
i knew i loved him, bu... Apr 14 2004, 03:03 AM
instantmusic of the marriges that end in divorce, you wonder wh... Apr 14 2004, 04:38 PM
malenky_koshka im not sure if someone already pointed this out bu... Apr 14 2004, 04:40 PM
cleec i think if you honestly think that she's the o... Apr 14 2004, 04:51 PM
jimmyjackiechan I think teens these days get too Hor** too quick a... Apr 14 2004, 09:06 PM
angel-roh lols...dont tell me u gona have sex at the age of ... Apr 14 2004, 11:05 PM
mglbaby hmm is it TRUE dat u stop growin when u loose ur v... Apr 14 2004, 11:29 PM
hOeyx3 QUOTE(mglbaby @ Apr 14 2004, 11:29 PM)hmm is ... Apr 15 2004, 12:32 AM
angel-roh LoLs~ u serious?! haha... umm....lols haha i d... Apr 15 2004, 12:36 AM
fiji_kid QUOTE(LQ_Darksoul @ Apr 4 2004, 10:10 PM)I ha... Apr 15 2004, 01:48 AM
v@por QUOTE(SeoulJah4God @ Apr 5 2004, 6:57 AM)Sex ... Apr 15 2004, 03:59 AM
TiNaBaBY074 theres not a certain age when you should lose your... May 7 2004, 11:17 AM
Chopstikx uhhh....wen u feel ready?.... May 8 2004, 12:51 AM
fiji_kid QUOTE(brian_deegan @ Apr 4 2004, 9:48 PM)how ... May 8 2004, 12:59 AM
sweetlyz QUOTE(krnxswat @ Apr 4 2004, 8:58 PM)You shou... May 8 2004, 07:27 PM
xxplicit you can't really tell if they're the ... May 9 2004, 10:11 AM
Mizz Cindy Tron I think u should wait until marriage. If u do it n... May 16 2004, 12:52 PM
Mizz Cindy Tron Oh yeah...just remember to live your life tu it... May 16 2004, 12:58 PM
AngelicEyz00 QUOTE(TiNaBaBY074 @ May 7 2004, 9:17 AM)there... May 16 2004, 12:58 PM
siobhansmith QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Apr 5 2004, 12:06 AM)... May 16 2004, 12:59 PM
xXxSnoWdrEamSxXx 14 isnt 2 young as long as u been wit da person 4 ... May 17 2004, 12:07 AM
franceass QUOTE(xquizit @ Apr 5 2004, 11:47 PM)if you... May 17 2004, 10:21 AM
NvieDi3ai3yGrL make sure that person makes you feel comfortable. ... May 17 2004, 04:23 PM
sweetlyz QUOTE(xXxSnoWdrEamSxXx @ May 16 2004, 10:07 P... May 18 2004, 02:23 AM
RiddleMeWonders Dude, I lost my virginity when I was Eleven. That ... May 18 2004, 02:31 AM
twistedfate My personal opinion is that you should wait until ... May 19 2004, 06:35 PM
INeverMeantToCauseYouTrouble QUOTE(xquizit @ Apr 5 2004, 11:47 PM)if you... May 20 2004, 01:34 PM
andy5272 check out my site: http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?... May 20 2004, 02:57 PM
177emories i think you hsould just wait until u get older... ... May 20 2004, 05:46 PM
pimpin231 yea 15 thats to young May 24 2004, 12:22 PM
fiji_kid QUOTE(andy5272 @ May 20 2004, 12:57 PM)check ... May 24 2004, 12:29 PM
mistahpho try to be a virgin till ur 21 lol
my xanga May 25 2004, 04:32 PM
MrTurtle if you wont regret it and you love her enough, the... May 26 2004, 05:03 PM
rOckThISshYt i was talking to my friend today, and i already kn... May 26 2004, 06:16 PM
illuminessence Abstinence!!!!!!!... May 26 2004, 07:03 PM
darkangel iono...but don't do it in the girls bathroom l... May 26 2004, 07:13 PM
ComradeRed It should be like with the Legendary Amazon Tribes... May 26 2004, 07:27 PM
NatiMarie I don't know, I don't want to lose my virg... May 26 2004, 07:34 PM
onenonly101 I'm staying a virgin until marriage. To me it ... May 28 2004, 01:37 PM
LatinaLady QUOTE(krnxswat @ Apr 4 2004, 10:58 PM)You sho... May 28 2004, 05:27 PM
swtpumkinpie i lost mine when i was fifteen. i don't think ... May 29 2004, 06:46 AM
filipinobuddie I don't think you should have sex. It probably... May 29 2004, 02:28 PM
fiji_kid QUOTE(darkangel @ May 26 2004, 5:13 PM)iono..... May 29 2004, 02:33 PM
WildGriffin QUOTEtry to be a virgin till ur 21 lol
Psssh, i d... May 29 2004, 02:43 PM
Got Shibby? Just do what feels right. But, if you want to do i... May 30 2004, 02:59 PM
ll_behbiixpinay_ll hoomie lost hurr virginity at age uhh lyke durr 12... May 31 2004, 12:58 AM
swteznitemarez um, i think 16 is the legal age for that.. i dunno... May 31 2004, 01:15 AM
azn_r4pf4n i'd b honest 2 u. this ain't the right tim... May 31 2004, 07:07 PM
barbie you should wait till after your teen years, physic... Jun 9 2004, 07:12 PM
islandkiss I think it's better to have sex when you'r... Jun 12 2004, 08:02 PM
BurstinStarzz it all comes down to the relationship level...me a... Jun 12 2004, 11:18 PM
simplysweet259 the only people that can really decide on that sub... Jun 12 2004, 11:24 PM![]() ![]() |