Friends could act like parents..., Can they what do u think |
Friends could act like parents..., Can they what do u think |
Jan 3 2005, 09:23 PM
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Styna ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
My one friend is always on me and lecturing me of things that i should do and change and, that i shouldn't be mean. I believe that i'm not mean except to those who can or are mean to me. I'm starting to feel like she doesn't approve of me being me. She also calls me and lectures me for some little mistake i have done. She tells me these are mature conversations but, i dont want to be mature around my friends because then it's just boring although at times i am mature. Im starting to feel offended and very annoyed when she is around. Do you have any friends who do this and what should i tell her so it doesn't make her hate me. Oh yea and she is a hypocrite but, when i tell her she is she argues that she isn't and, backs it up with huge reasons.
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Jan 4 2005, 05:39 PM
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![]() Linny the dork. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 178 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,258 |
well, if her advice really does bother you and you already tried telling her that you want to be your own person, she's no friend. Friends are supposed to love you for who you are, not who they want you to be.
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Jayembe Friends could act like parents... Jan 3 2005, 09:23 PM
waccoon Get new friends. Jan 3 2005, 09:25 PM
strwbrrykiwi23 just tell her to leave you alone.
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you'r... Jan 3 2005, 09:25 PM
Nicolatofu i think there's nothing wrong with talking abo... Jan 3 2005, 09:26 PM
Just_Dream Tell her that you have had enough about her lectur... Jan 3 2005, 09:29 PM
mouse_3k Just tell her u need a friend and not another moth... Jan 3 2005, 09:29 PM
MyChemicalRomance. maybe she's just concerned about you? but if y... Jan 3 2005, 09:31 PM
Solipsist < You > You better back off before you'r... Jan 3 2005, 09:32 PM
Shattered_Hope tell her what you told us.
Tell her you're en... Jan 3 2005, 09:53 PM
islandgirl4eva Yeah, be honest and upfront with how you feel. Is ... Jan 3 2005, 10:08 PM
stephinika yeah just tell her that if she doesn't like wh... Jan 3 2005, 11:01 PM
royalfreshness I hate it when people lecture me! Especially ... Jan 3 2005, 11:11 PM
runforfun529 realize that there are sometimes that you need to ... Jan 4 2005, 04:31 PM
toodlepops. jeeZ, sounds really annoying. talk to her bout it.... Jan 5 2005, 02:09 AM
bad_girl tell her to stop. Jan 5 2005, 03:14 AM![]() ![]() |