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[HIMsHeartagram]

Agh! Im about to blow!! This effin sucks so bad, and its supposed to be a good day but my freaking boyfriend ruined the 2005 spirit in me.

So well here was the deal. He was on the computer, and while he was on the computer i wrote him a little love note, telling how much i love him.. he read the note, and i said im going to sit in his lap, he pushed me away and said no im busy, and i got mad/sad. Then now since i wanted to get on the computer, he got all freaking butt hurt about it, and crying to me saying that hes way more important than the computer, and i dont know, it just hurts me that he does this to me, and just pushes me away from him when hes on the computer, and i when im on the computer, im still all over him. With him, i cant even talk to guys, be near a guy, have a guy as a friend.. He goes through all my stuff, and he reads everything that i have in my journal, and if i told him i wrote something and he asked me what i wrote, i just say " nothing really" then he starts saying "well you dont love me" or something like "Im going to break up with you if you dont tell me". Argh.

I dont know what to do. I feel like crying, and just socking him repeatedly in the face and tell him that i f**king want a little privacy alone, and i dont need to be with you 24/7 of my f**king lifetime. Grr. Im sorry but thanks for reading this, it sounds all lame but i just need advice or opinions.

I gave him a love note, and he pushes me away.

[Just_Dream]

Please dont' make duplicate topics. I merged the original with this one. Anyway, it seems as if he's one of those.. obsessive kind of guys. But when you DO actually want to be with him and talk to him, he pushes you away. Strange... But you know what? He can't rule your life. Tell him that you need time alone, that you do love him. And tell him that if he truly loves and cares for you, he'll give you space.

When I first went out with my boyfriend, i got so jealous of him talking to other girls that I would sort of cling onto him hahah. But then he got jealous too. So we both gave each other space, that we could talk to other people of the opposite sex who were our friends. See, all you have to do is take time out with him and tell him how you feel. And if he pushes you away, then fine, just push him away! Aren't you tired of having to reassure him that you love him? Yet all he does is whine and "female-dog" about how you don't love him. And tell him that you wrote him stuff about how you love him.

It seems as if he doesn't trust you at all. Tell him that love is based on trust and if you and him dont' have that, then the relationship will only go downhill. He goes through your personal stuff?! He shouldn't be doing that! Sometimes my boyfriend does that haha, but then in the end, I realized that there's nothing to hide from my boyfriend. I can tell him anything and everything. So tell your boyfriend that you've got nothing to hide and not be worried because he should be able to trust you. YOU seem the like the type of person who gives him trust and hopes that he'll give you his trust as well. Tell him that, that you're worried and you do care about him, that he should be able to trust you.