virginity, im scared to loose it..., help |
 Dec 21 2004, 04:18 PM
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okay me and my bf have talked about having sex whenever were ready, alot of my friends aren't virgins and they tell me to just get it over with ... i want too but im scared,plus i dont want to bleed on my bf when my hymen breaks... isnt that embarassing
 although its proly broken already cuz i ride horses every day
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Dec 28 2004, 11:33 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i don't see what the big deal is, you people shouldn't just outright say "no don't lose it" just give a suggestion, it's not like you know her personally or that you're her, it's her body she can do whatever she wants as long as it's not going to kill or severely damage her.
what's the big deal about losing your virginity when you're 16? i lost mine in august and i'm 16, (soon to be 17 in february), also to be honest, i had sex with my boyfriend  yesterdayblah blah blah we (my boyfriend and i) know that condoms are only 90 something percent effective but whatever, we love each other and it just feels right 
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Dec 30 2004, 03:38 PM
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 QUOTE(chii @ Dec 28 2004, 11:33 AM) i don't see what the big deal is, you people shouldn't just outright say "no don't lose it" just give a suggestion, it's not like you know her personally or that you're her, it's her body she can do whatever she wants as long as it's not going to kill or severely damage her. what's the big deal about losing your virginity when you're 16? i lost mine in august and i'm 16, (soon to be 17 in february), also to be honest, i had sex with my boyfriend yesterdayblah blah blah we (my boyfriend and i) know that condoms are only 90 something percent effective but whatever, we love each other and it just feels right   seriously  i think ill wait longer and not do it now, but im gunna end up loosing sometime soon, and almost ALL my friends have done it and they tell everyone, im not ashamed of who i am... ppl who want to label me as a "whore" can go right ahead i dont care what ppl say about me cuz within a few years i proly wont even know who they are   you dont understand, dont say that my bf doesnt respect me and he just wants in my pants... he told me he doesnt want to rush me into anything i dont wnna do, nad i talked to hima bout it not him to me,
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katybrown09 virginity, im scared to loose it... Dec 21 2004, 04:18 PM
yummy_delight if you're scared, then you definitely should N... Dec 21 2004, 04:21 PM 177emories don't do it when your scared... do it when you... Dec 21 2004, 04:25 PM Kathleen Mmm yeah, definitely don't fall victim to peer... Dec 21 2004, 04:26 PM happygoluckyng dont' be pressured...do it when you feel like ... Dec 21 2004, 04:38 PM Nicolatofu hey i'm in the same boat. i have maybe 3 frien... Dec 21 2004, 04:44 PM aRtIfIcIaLbLoNdE don't give into peer pressure..you're real... Dec 21 2004, 04:48 PM laur3nw Gahhhhhh, I hate peer pressure. Don't let tha... Dec 21 2004, 04:53 PM Fatality When you want to do it.
Do it.
But be entirely sur... Dec 21 2004, 04:58 PM katybrown09 see we have talked about it and my bf says that he... Dec 21 2004, 04:59 PM angel-roh im scared if i will lose my virginity too im only... Dec 21 2004, 05:08 PM tallaznkate YEA, EVERYONE DAT POSTED iS RiGHT. DO iT WHEN YOU... Dec 22 2004, 01:45 PM pretty_pinay057 well even if your friends lost their viginity you ... Dec 22 2004, 02:01 PM Pineapplepower Listen to the ppl who say when you are ready. I do... Dec 22 2004, 02:30 PM lyin_in_wait it sounds like your not ready so ya know what? don... Dec 22 2004, 03:03 PM Just_Dream WAIT WAIT WAIT..
By looking at your birthday, You... Dec 22 2004, 03:31 PM tyedyefroggy Ya, dont let peer pressure get to you. You must wa... Dec 22 2004, 03:48 PM aznxdreamer if your afraid, then your not ready. Dec 22 2004, 03:51 PM x shootingstar x 14? don't do it. how long have u been dating? ... Dec 22 2004, 05:22 PM stephinika exactly. you are only 14...i'm 16 and i'm ... Dec 22 2004, 05:27 PM katybrown09 thanks for helping me out ppl i neede the advice, ... Dec 22 2004, 06:10 PM booger butt peer presure is a royal pain in the ass.
If your ... Dec 22 2004, 08:36 PM weirdness like what ze other people said
if you dont want t... Dec 22 2004, 08:40 PM Shattered_Hope I think you should wait till you're older. And... Dec 25 2004, 10:14 PM MyVermilionPlague Don't feel pressured..
If you do, then don... Dec 25 2004, 10:16 PM
nyctophiliac QUOTE(Despise @ Dec 25 2004, 10:16 PM)Don... Jan 17 2005, 09:01 PM __xxfrappachino<3 QUOTE(angel_roh @ Dec 21 2004, 5:08 PM)im sca... Dec 25 2004, 10:47 PM anqie QUOTE(weirdness @ Dec 22 2004, 5:40 PM)like w... Dec 25 2004, 10:53 PM Cake. QUOTE(anqie @ Dec 25 2004, 10:53 PM)yeah.. yo... Dec 25 2004, 11:14 PM mouse_3k QUOTEokay me and my bf have talked about having se... Dec 25 2004, 11:47 PM Skyline Drive If you are scared then you are not ready. Don... Dec 25 2004, 11:59 PM unfortunatekiwi i'm only 12...in 7th grade and there are girls... Dec 26 2004, 12:06 AM xoxo_koala_kisses_ well... if you're having ANY doubt at all, you... Dec 26 2004, 12:06 AM KRicoBoriqua Many of my friends are not virgins and they tell m... Dec 26 2004, 12:23 AM inlonelinessidie QUOTE(katybrown09 @ Dec 21 2004, 2:59 PM)see ... Dec 26 2004, 01:19 AM gponce10104 hes your bf?? have sex when your married lol coz r... Dec 26 2004, 09:02 AM Weird addiction if ur scared,dont do it Dec 26 2004, 11:22 AM krnxswat Uh, then tighten it? Dec 26 2004, 11:22 AM airam QUOTE(gponce10104 @ Dec 26 2004, 9:02 AM)hes ... Dec 26 2004, 11:26 AM Stately Lover Wtf? You're what, 14? And you want to lose you... Dec 26 2004, 04:02 PM X_xhidden_tearsx_X you know alot of people are born without hymen, ju... Dec 26 2004, 04:50 PM Skyline Drive QUOTE(X_xhidden_tearsx_X @ Dec 26 2004, 4:50 ... Dec 26 2004, 05:26 PM toodlepops. dont do it under pressure and do it when ur ready. Dec 27 2004, 04:09 AM niez_cho Erm... here's some advice... not written by me... Dec 27 2004, 04:24 AM miss barnes if you're scared to do it then dont do it. jus... Dec 27 2004, 04:12 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE if your not ready to lose your virginity yet, don... Dec 27 2004, 04:20 PM skaterjswife2 if you're scared to lose it, you're not re... Dec 27 2004, 06:03 PM not_your_average QUOTE(katybrown09 @ Dec 21 2004, 4:18 PM)okay... Dec 27 2004, 07:17 PM spootiee you should not if you feel pressured. you should n... Dec 27 2004, 10:22 PM angel-roh QUOTE(__xxfrappachino<3 @ Dec 25 2004, 7:4... Dec 28 2004, 10:51 AM blowpops69 actulay im scared to lose it too. la Dec 28 2004, 12:27 PM BEBEx_iNFAM0USS omg, if you are scared, u are def. not ready. and ... Dec 30 2004, 06:18 PM BEBEx_iNFAM0USS and it depends on the PERSON. there is not proper ... Dec 30 2004, 06:19 PM katybrown09 QUOTE(BEBEx_iNFAM0USS @ Dec 30 2004, 6:19 PM)... Jan 9 2005, 08:22 PM usagimoon72287 just because your friends does it doesn't mean... Jan 9 2005, 09:35 PM Me= Sex-C Love x2 I wouldn't listen to your friends. It's s... Jan 16 2005, 09:36 PM angel_revelation haha pretty_pinay057 that IS true (the movie thing... Jan 17 2005, 02:03 AM toyo loco you should wait
you do it when you ready
not when ... Jan 17 2005, 02:10 AM ladys1mpt1m0uz hey if you're not comfortable dont do it. it... Jan 17 2005, 02:19 AM dOyOOHtHINK I def. kno im afraid... i mean i dont really have ... Jan 17 2005, 03:27 AM xSWEETxCANDiix Be sure you're completely ready and sure befor... Jan 17 2005, 03:38 AM tresa1992 If you're scared / nervous / afraid, then that... Jan 17 2005, 03:54 AM endura88 virginity is a very speacial thing that us women o... Jan 17 2005, 10:11 AM iheartsimba Ok, its up to you.
Do you want to do it or not?
... Jan 17 2005, 10:15 AM yanners if you're scared then don't lose it...if y... Jan 17 2005, 10:24 AM sammehmyst Read the lyrics to "Genie in a Bottle." Jan 17 2005, 11:57 AM xd0rkette If you're scared even onebit, a teeny little b... Jan 17 2005, 12:01 PM you suck well if ur scared dont do it. duh. Jan 17 2005, 03:19 PM electric shock If you're scared, then dont do it until you fe... Jan 17 2005, 03:59 PM darkmisry dont let ur friends or ur bf presure u into doing ... Jan 17 2005, 05:48 PM xGlovex Do It..Wait A Second..YOuv Rideen A Horse Before A... Jan 17 2005, 09:44 PM Angel_Cece Do what YOU want to do. Don't have anyone pres... Jan 17 2005, 09:45 PM a smile is power wait til your older....if youre afraid of losing y... Jan 17 2005, 10:03 PM dani41790 dont be pressured into doing sex just because peop... Jan 18 2005, 02:45 AM vickiwang123 If ure not ready, dont do it. dunt let ure friendz... Jan 24 2005, 08:52 AM sw33tdr3mer I am scared also I have friends who having sex sin... Jan 24 2005, 11:42 AM |
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